Getting attention

[Tracie515]

Re: Getting attention

So, 3 questions really…

• Have YOU personally noticed more attention as you get slimmer?
• Do you find slimmer people more attractive? (and hands up, guilty as charged on this one)
• Do you think it has more to do with confidence than weight? Like as you get slimmer, you feel better, thus attract more glances?

1. Yes

2. I like my men with some meat on their bones but my husband just lost 55 Lbs on atkins and is at 207 lbs and is starting to look really good to me. So i would say it all depends on there confidence.

3. I really think my confidence boost from losing weight is what is making me get more attention. I still have 80 lbs to lose and am getting the attention. You know what i mean?

[Blackinese27]

Re: Getting attention

Have YOU personally noticed more attention as you get slimmer? I've always gotten attention, thick or thin lol. But I think as I get smaller the attention grows and gows, I get even more men bugging me haha.

Do you find slimmer people more attractive? No not really. To be honest with you there as some healthy sized people out there that look way better than some slim folks I know of. One of them is Jennifer Hudson. According to hollywood she's a plus size, but to be honest with you that girl is definately one hot mama!

Do you think it has more to do with confidence than weight? Yes I do believe that.

Like as you get slimmer, you feel better, thus attract more glances? You know, I've always felt good about myself. I was always looking outside myself for strength and confidence but it comes from within. It is there all the time. - Anna Freud: Quotes: Confidence

[jengeesh]

Re: Getting attention

GREAT post wonderful points and YES you are right on. For me this is nothing about attention getting "i've been skinny & i've been big". For me the diet was sparked because I have 3 kids I want to be healthy for them. I want my hubby to be proud when he's seen with his family "guess that's attention". I see how my mom's health is so bad she's only 49 she has many health issues ....related to not taking care of her self.

• Have YOU personally noticed more attention as you get slimmer? I had a drug addiction "sober 2 years now" during my use i lost weight i was 160 and YES I noticed men were more into me then "as a drug addict" then currently at 240! and stone sober. I gained this on methadone treatment.
• Do you find slimmer people more attractive? : HONEST this is not true for me at all. I find people who are bigger are better TO me easier to get along with "i feel more accepted by them". I find big men very sexy "always did even as a young teen when i was 130 I LOVED BIG GUYS!!!!". My hubby is 305 he's 6'1.
• Do you think it has more to do with confidence than weight? Like as you get slimmer, you feel better, thus attract more glances? when ever i've been slimmer my confidence has went up 1000% i don't like me in my fat skin. I've been from 130-260 i've always felt better emotionally socially slimmer.