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    US couples seek separate bedrooms

    More and more couples in the US are ordering separate master bedrooms in their new homes to help ensure a more harmonious marriage, research suggests.

    A survey by the National Association of Home Builders has predicted that by 2015, 60% of custom-built homes will have two master bedroom suites.

    The quest for better rest is behind the trend as experts say the lack of decent sleep can cause marital tension.

    The option of having separate rooms has often improved marriages, they say.

    Gopal Ahluwalia, of the National Association of Home Builders, said the trend was a "market-driven demand that's going to continue".

    'Flex suite'

    Separate bedrooms have often been taken as a sign of a failing relationship, but for many people they appear to be becoming a practical necessity.

    Snoring, night-time visits to the bathroom, child-care requirements and shift-working can deprive couples of the recommended seven to eight hours of sleep per night.

    The situation has reportedly become more acute as gender roles have changed - with both men and women juggling work and childcare duties.

    Families expert, Stephanie Coontz, told the New York Times there were many couples "confident enough that they have a nice marriage, but they don't particularly like sleeping in the same room".

    "I don't think it says anything about their sex lives," she said.

    Nevertheless, some builders call the extra room a "flex suite" to avoid any embarrassment.

    The trend is not restricted to the upper end of the market, the newspaper says.

    Lana Pepper of St Louis said she had switched things around in her new apartment to cope with a restless husband.

    "My husband is still alive. I would have killed him," she said.

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    Re: From the BBC: US couples seek separate bedrooms

    I know quite a few couples that have separate master suites, mostly because one of them snores like a train or has restless leg syndrome.

    One couple also built a custom home where it looks like two separate houses connected by a single-story room. They call it a pass-through. This couple has different ideas on decorating and cleaning. He's modern and very tidy, she's country clutter. She'll visit him a couple times a week for, um, marital reasons.
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      Re: From the BBC: US couples seek separate bedrooms

      While I'm not unconvinced that National Association of Home Builders isn't just trying to boost their industry, I do agree that having an escape room is essential, even if not your own separate bedroom. I know couples (married and not) that have all their stuff in the same bedroom, but still resort to sleeping in the guestroom, baby's room, on a sofa or other mat much of the time for the sake of getting decent sleep, or letting the partner get some.
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        Re: From the BBC: US couples seek separate bedrooms

        In our last year of college, my boyfriend and I had a 2 bedroom apartment. Part of it was for space reasons (we both have a ton of stuff) and part of it was to make the parents feel a little better about the living arrangement. But, we never slept separately. It was kind of fun having two bedrooms...we'd sleep in a particular bed or room to suit our particular mood.

        I would believe that many couples would want a separate bedroom. I certainly wouldn't! I sleep better when I'm with my mate and I have a restless night when I'm not with him. I wouldn't mind having a separate room for my stuff--I think I need to clean out my dressers and closets!
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