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  • I understand now why overweight people do not exercise.

    Not sure where to post this....

    Society is so quick to equate being overweight with a lack of initiative or personal responsibility. Naturally thin people with high metabolisms say, "oh why don't you just exercise and eat less?" Yes, this is very good advice although a bit simplistic. They don't understand that for the overweight, exercise can be very uncomfortable and embarrassing, especially doing so publicly.

    I have recently started walking to/from work to save on travel costs. It is a journey of 5 miles roundtrip in 70F/20C degrees humid weather. I wear my work clothing with tennis shoes and socks and carry my iPod for some motivating tunes. I'm really seeing some amazing results (even in a weeks' time) and feel great for doing this!

    However, it's totally embarrassing and often uncomfortable. And I am not even too obese and I am in okay shape, considering. During my brisk walk, I sweat like a sow the whole way. By the time I get to work there is sweat covering my face, my hair is frizzed, and my entire back is totally wet. It is the most uncomfortable feeling in the world. Also, I have a serious problem with my thighs chafing and even on one occasion walking through hyde park with my bf, they BLED. (that's why my name is Thunder Thighs ) I've started wearing some lycra bike shorts under my skirts and dresses which helps.

    The route of my walk follows a few main streets in some very trendy areas of London. I walk past a lot of pubs filled with beautiful people. People stare at my thunder thighs rumbling past in tennis shoes and socks (I find that people in the UK don't really commute wearing tennis shoes - it's more common in America). I am so embarrassed looking like a fat sweaty a$$ but I can't help doing these walks. It makes me feel wonderful despite the chinks suffered in my pride.

    Anyway, I thought I would post this just to say that I can understand why people do not exercise. I am so determined to lose this weight that I will do whatever it takes and embarrass myself any way I can. But for someone less determined, it would be so easy to give up. I wish I had that option!

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    Re: I understand now why overweight people do not exercise.

    Hey Thunder thighs,

    It is great that you walk such a long distance to work I always wear trainers into london and put my heels in my bag - I never understand how women can stand teetering along at 1 mile an hour in ridiculous shoes!

    Ouch on the thighs - I used to get that and even now worry about whether to wear cycling shorts under a skirt. I can just about cope without now.

    Don't feel embarrassed - you are doing something positive and active, which is far better than sitting around in a bar being thin and aloof

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    • #3
      Re: I understand now why overweight people do not exercise.

      I admire your persistance and observance. I agree to many of your points and wanted to point out that one day soon, you will be hidden amongst those "beautiful people" and currently you stand out because you are driven. You've embraced that and I have a huge appreciation for you.
      30/F/5'6"
      Start Weight 245+lbs. in January 2004
      rerererererestart 6/08/2007 @ 185
      6.2 FEET of FAT GONE
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      • #4
        Re: I understand now why overweight people do not exercise.

        I still havent got to the exercising in public stage!! sure i walk but i could never run! that scares me!! with another stone or so off i'm gonna give it a go though!

        kudos to ya!
        HW 303
        Aug '04 SW-287 LW-232
        Restart - Apr 07 - SW 266 CW 225




        "Don't let your past dictate who you are, but let it be a part of who you become."

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        • #5
          Re: I understand now why overweight people do not exercise.

          My mother used to say this:

          "You'd worry less what people think of you if you realized how seldom they do."

          Stand tall (albeit sweaty!) and be proud; you're out there DOING IT and those who would ridicule you aren't !

          Congratulations on DOING IT!

          Betty
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          • #6
            Re: I understand now why overweight people do not exercise.

            I just had to add extra Woo hoos to your getting out there and exercising! What Betty said is perfect!

            April 2007: 212
            Today: 190:D :walking
            1st Goal 189
            Goal: 165




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            • #7
              Re: I understand now why overweight people do not exercise.

              Thunder Thighs:
              Totally understand where you're coming from, and where you're going is going to be great! Good for you for walking to work! That's sooooo awesome! I am proad of you for being committed not only to this WOL but also that you saved some $ at the same time! Cool! More $ for new clothes soon!
              liz
              Highest wt 227
              Atkins start wt 215
              Restart 1/29/10 201
              Current 195
              Goal 149








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              • #8
                Re: I understand now why overweight people do not exercise.

                I know what you mean!!! Seeing my flabbys and my cup-cake-waist-effect pouring out of my sweatpants have discouraged me from going out .. I do it at home.. I just can;t stand being walking at the park and watching those tiny-toned-tanned-perfect girls running in mini-shorts with no flabbys-cellulite or whatsoever (and thinking to myslef.. what in the world are they doing running if their figure is so perfect??????????) but anyways, I see your point, and totally agree with you on the beautiful people staring (well maybe they're not staring) it seems like if I could hear them say (look at that blob running hahaha and laughing at me) but now that I think of it, maybe they're not!
                Congratulations on your determination... Those chafey thighs will pay off, sooner or later... I think sooner than the beautiful ladies at the pubs would expect
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                • #9
                  Re: I understand now why overweight people do not exercise.

                  You're doing great and I admire you for walking to work the way you do.

                  Betty's mom was right, most of the time people really aren't thinking about you, and if they are--they're shallow people you shouldn't care about anyway.

                  Do what's best for you and those thighs will quit rubbing soon!
                  Caryl
                  Start 2/21/2007 212
                  CW 6/22/2008 167
                  Goal 124
                  F 49 yo

                  Even if you're on the right track, you'll get run over if you just sit there. Will Rogers

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                  • #10
                    Re: I understand now why overweight people do not exercise.

                    Though I must say the point that you have emphasized here is good to know that you have already started to gain benefits from a week of walking I should say your thoughts on why obese men dont walk is true, but then we should keep this in mind the cause is for something which can make our lives better so I guess it is best to focus on the goal rather than looking at how people react to this, now as you have also motivated me to walk so take this in a way that by walking and losing weight you are also making others inspired.

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                    • #11
                      Re: I understand now why overweight people do not exercise.


                      ...watching those tiny-toned-tanned-perfect girls running in mini-shorts with no flabbys-cellulite or whatsoever (and thinking to myslef.. what in the world are they doing running if their figure is so perfect??????????)
                      Ummm...I got rid of the flabbys, cellulite because I DO RUN and I keep it off the same way ...

                      While that is true for me now, 6 years into Atkins and exercise, it wasn't true at all in the beginning. I had the stretch marks, the cellulite and the flab. My point is, that with a firm resolve, discipline, and determination, YOU CAN DO IT. If I can, anyone can. I'll be 52 in a couple of months, and I run upwards of 30 miles every single week and have been doing that for 4 years.

                      Betty
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