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    I know there are a lot of posts like this, but I just need to vent. I ordered a taco salad today at work and I was commenting on how it came with no meat...just lettuce, tomatoes, olives, cheese, sour cream and salsa on the side. Somebody said, "what about beans". And I said, no I'm not eating beans yet. So everybody starts discussing this. The one girl pipes up and says, "The Atkins diet is so unhealthy. You know that Dr. Atkins died from it". I said no, he slipped on the ice and fell. And everybody in my department agrees with her...that yes, he fell, but he fell because of a heart attack. Whatever. I just let that point go.

    So I continue to say how I don't know how anybody can say that what I eat is unhealthy because I eat good meats, veggies, and no sugar. So the same girl says, "Atkins isn't a no sugar diet, its a no carb diet." So I continue to go on to fight my point, about how I eat healthy carbs and how sugar is a bad carb, so in turn there are no refinded sugars. I finally just gave up and ate my salad without continuing to argue.

    The thing that makes me mad is that the girl that was so against Atkins is very slim. She just magically lost 25 lbs over the last year (its a mystery). She has a rule...she eats nothing that's green...about the only veggie she likes is carrots and she doesn't even really like them. Every day at work she lives on candy bars, chips, hormel chili, pizza, and regular soda. She eats nothing healthy, and she is trying to rip apart the way I eat! I wish I had some balls to step up and say something more to her about her eating habits, but I just gave up the fight. She is telling me that eating this way is going to kill me like it did Dr. Atkins. ARGH!

    This is the same girl that said to an overweight coworker...if I ever weigh 200 lbs, I hope somebody shoots me. And the coworker she says this to is well over 200 lbs. I am going to throw a party the day I weigh 200 lbs. I'm thinking a banner in my cube to celebrate and maybe some ballons. She will be mortified that I am excited about something like that.

    Ok, that's the end of my vent. I really don't care what she thinks, but it just annoyed me.
    Originally Started May 29, 2003 and lost 96 pounds. Fell off the wagon and gained over 100 pounds back. DON'T LET THIS HAPPEN TO YOU!

    316/306/150 - Restarted November 10, 2008

    31 year old female, Denver, CO

  • #2
    Nikki, I feel your pain. No matter what you eat, someone is gonna have something to say about it. Last night I was at a friends house, and she had some "weight watchers" cake, which was basically angel food cake with pineapple. My husband and I said thanks, but no thanks. I didn't say why. I don't ever advertise that I'm atkins, mainly because I don't want to hear the comments. Well, she kept pushing, and my husband finally told her that we're on atkins. She then tells me, that there was a recent article that had an overview of 5 different diets. Weight watchers got the best ratings, Atkins got the worst. blah blah blah blah blah. I just said, "Oh really?" I let her think I was considering what she was saying, then I changed the subject. It's not worth my time to argue with people about my decisions. Bottom line.

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    • #3
      Way to go, Aphex and nikki!

      I'm so sorry the world is so filled with people willing to eat and listen to anything that they're fed both nutritionally and mentally. At least you know that a few weeks, months and years from now it'll be apparent who's really right.
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      • #4
        Dont worry she will have children and get old. She will become fat.
        ~Lauren~



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        • #5
          I understand..People are just idiots sometimes...I just ignore them....

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          • #6
            Re: Need to Vent

            This is why I'm so afraid to tell people I've started this diet. Everyone has an opinion and mostly they're negative. So, I'm trying to avoid social stuff for a while - I'm new at this and am afraid I'll cave under pressure.
            6WEC#26

            47/F/6' SW316/CW210/GWdon't know

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            • #7
              Nikki, she sounds like a cow. I bet you any money that even though she looks slim, I'd hate to see her insides - it must be corroded with all that sugar and junk she's eating!!!

              Chances are she would also have lots of health problems when she gets older - not worth getting your blood pressure up because some twit is too silly to see she's wrong
              30yo F 5'5 (166cm)
              HW170, SW170/CW170/GW120 (lbs) [75,70/67/55(kg)]


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              • #8
                Magically lost 25# you say...I know some folks (former co-workers) who did just that and they owe it all to meth (oh, yea...that and the loss of their teeth). Some folks will go to any lengths to lose the weight. Do what you feel is right for you. Screw what other people think.

                For the record: I'm not implying that your co-worker uses/used meth. Just making a comment about some folks I know.
                SW/232 CW/216 GW/140

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                • #9
                  Sometimes its easier to just ignore people when they are being ignorant. As long as you know inside, that you are doing the right thing, that's important. As the weight starts to melt off you, people will notice, and then they will change their tune!!! Stick to your guns. :guns

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                  • #10
                    Don't you just hate it when that happens?! Here we are doing our best to better ourselves; we are feeling better and hanging in there, and some idiot 'expert' decides to show their ignorance! That woman needs prayers!!

                    Let me know when the party begins!! Losing weight and getting healthy is the best revenge!
                    Doris
                    5' female
                    Start date: 2/27/05
                    SW 229/CW199/Goal 125
                    mini goal 190 by 8/4/05






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                    • #11
                      I get the same crap from my sis-n-law. First it was Shaklee...all these powder drinks and 3 cups of fruit and 3 cups of veggies....she tried this diet a whole bunch of times, and never got past her water loss, but insisted I try it. I wasted $800 and got the worst sugar low of my life! Now its some 6 week program with a differant diet for every body type garbage. She and her husband have tried it like 4 times, never lose more then maybe 5-10 pounds, but here she goes again..."I so wish you'ld do this with me. Atkins is so unhealthy! By the way, congrats on losing 70 pounds" It just doesn't make sense to me. You can tell by looking at me how healthy I am. One of these days one of her own family is going to tell her they tried Atkins, and all of a sudden it will be the only diet that works...blah blah blah. I just keep my mouth shut, smile, and have another glass of water.
                      ~Marion INDUCTION restart January 10, 2010

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                      SW 440/CW 438/ GW 175





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                      • #12
                        Argh, I can't stand people like that!! Why can't people ever have informed opinions? People believe anything that they hear enough times.. they figure "well i've heard it in more then one place so this must be true!" but never bother to research or think twice about it. (That's why things like "talking points" used in politics are so effective)..

                        Anyway, what I always tell myself is... i'd rather be the one dealing with ignorant people then BE the ignorant people!

                        Sorry you have to deal with someone like that at your job!
                        F/29/5'2
                        HW262/SW195/CW189/GW135
                        Did Atkins back in 2005 and went from 262 to 182!
                        Starting Nov 4th 2009 again at 195
                        First mini-goal: 187 by thanksgiving
                        Second mini-goal: 181 by Xmas trip to see in-laws in LA, size 14's!



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                        • #13
                          Oh honey, I know what u mean, those girls are just JEALOUS of you. Little witches :geek
                          21/Female/KY.
                          Starting-350
                          Current-325
                          Goal-200*or less*

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                          • #14
                            A co-worker told me yesterday that Atkins is just a stupid way to eat. She said, "After all, how can it be healthy to eat 10 hamburgers and a pound of bacon at every meal?"

                            I tried to tell her that Atkins is nothing like that, but she wouldn't listen. Doesn't matter that I've read the book and she's listened to uninformed people -- she believes she's right and there's no changing her mind.
                            Female 5'5"
                            343/196/150

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                            • #15
                              THat is hwo society works. One person believes its bad and the rest follow. Just ingore them and they will come around eventually.

                              Congrats on your weight loss!


                              Joy
                              Joy...aka former Carb Addict!

                              325/CW274/GW150





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