Six post-it notes a day to success.
I am the person who would have authored, "The 7 habits of highly ineffective people".
I was usually overwhelmed and under-motivated.
I was usually the one always putting out the forest fires in the house, as regards organization and keeping it all together.
After awhile, 4 kids, 2 cats and years later, I'd thrown my hands up in the air in defeat!
Defeat led to self-abusive behaviors, such as eating too much. I'd walk into a room with good intentions. I would organize and clean this office! Only 10 minutes later, there would be papers strewn everywhere (I could have a pile-it's licens.. I pile it here and I pile it there), I was frustrated and then I'd be back on the couch sucking on Skittles to medicate my failures.
It was only when I realized doing a little really meant a lot.
Afterall, walking on a treadmill for only 10 minutes doesn't seem like much, but before you know it, you're walking for 30!
With that in mind, I took a pad of post-it notes and wrote down the six little things I would do that day. Of the 6, 3 were important, and three not necessarily.
They might include:
1) Pay the bills
2) Call the dentist and schedule appointments for the kids
3) Volunteer at school
4) Walk for 30 minuteson the treadmill
5) Do a load of laundry (note: not the entire house of laundry... a load)
6) Vacuum the living room (Note: not do a spring cleaning... just one thing)
I have learned to never choose more than 6 things, just because the overwhelming aspects kick in and we're back on the couch in a fetal position. Less than 6, and I felt I wasn't getting enough done.
Before I knew it, I was getting up early to get these 6 things ticked off my list... I was atually looking forward to it! And not only did I end up getting these things done, but I'd accomplish even more things, because I felt empowered!
So, the next time you feel overwhelmed by circumstance, pull out your post-it notes and remember these little stickies as the 6-steps to success for sanity.
Do you think you want to try this? I challenge you to give it a week and see if things don't become suddenly a little more managable. If there's not a little skip to your step and a wee song in your heart.
Now if you'll excuse me, I need to make some dental appointments...
I am the person who would have authored, "The 7 habits of highly ineffective people".
I was usually overwhelmed and under-motivated.
I was usually the one always putting out the forest fires in the house, as regards organization and keeping it all together.
After awhile, 4 kids, 2 cats and years later, I'd thrown my hands up in the air in defeat!
Defeat led to self-abusive behaviors, such as eating too much. I'd walk into a room with good intentions. I would organize and clean this office! Only 10 minutes later, there would be papers strewn everywhere (I could have a pile-it's licens.. I pile it here and I pile it there), I was frustrated and then I'd be back on the couch sucking on Skittles to medicate my failures.
It was only when I realized doing a little really meant a lot.
Afterall, walking on a treadmill for only 10 minutes doesn't seem like much, but before you know it, you're walking for 30!
With that in mind, I took a pad of post-it notes and wrote down the six little things I would do that day. Of the 6, 3 were important, and three not necessarily.
They might include:
1) Pay the bills
2) Call the dentist and schedule appointments for the kids
3) Volunteer at school
4) Walk for 30 minuteson the treadmill
5) Do a load of laundry (note: not the entire house of laundry... a load)
6) Vacuum the living room (Note: not do a spring cleaning... just one thing)
I have learned to never choose more than 6 things, just because the overwhelming aspects kick in and we're back on the couch in a fetal position. Less than 6, and I felt I wasn't getting enough done.
Before I knew it, I was getting up early to get these 6 things ticked off my list... I was atually looking forward to it! And not only did I end up getting these things done, but I'd accomplish even more things, because I felt empowered!
So, the next time you feel overwhelmed by circumstance, pull out your post-it notes and remember these little stickies as the 6-steps to success for sanity.
Do you think you want to try this? I challenge you to give it a week and see if things don't become suddenly a little more managable. If there's not a little skip to your step and a wee song in your heart.
Now if you'll excuse me, I need to make some dental appointments...



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