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    In the beginnings of Atkins, those induction days, our focus is almost completely taken up with carbs, foods, cooking, eating, scales, water, water, water, and exercise. We make our strong proclamations and forge out there and keep telling ourselves we are doing the right thing. Then we get into ketosis and there is a breakthru with energy, cravings and hunger, the engery goes up and the other two diminish...somewhat...

    Then we start watching those scales, or measuring tape or clothes for "results" our focus shifts from surviving the inital onslaught of change, to results, by the first week, we usualy become more results driven, even if we are encouraged by the seasoned leaders on these boards to lift our view...We get stuck with one pound or two pounds or a 10lb breakthru...That's where our focus shifted right...

    Then results start to control our thoughts and heaven forbit our attidudes get effected. We experience some setbacks, disappointments with numbers and expectations and a general let down into the "lifestyle"...Results slow down and a new level of patience and endurance is required.

    For me the shift has now moved to the internal drive, motivation and focus.
    I have been carrying around a heavy weight in my heart since last Thurs. each day it has increased as the weight either went down 1/2p. or up1,or 2 p. But today as I looked past the numbers and evaluated where I am, I realized the honeymoon is over.

    It has opened a new door, my focus has transitioned.
    Today I closed my eyes, using mental imagery, I looked at a new number, Jan 1 2007. What did I want to see about myself then. I never saw my body, just my attitude, which was good, my life contained low carb eating, still visiting the message boards, still exercising daily, and drinking my water. Calm and solid. Totally with this way of life on Jan 1, 2007.
    Then I looked further down the road, my 50th birthday. I saw the same image, still working this way of life, having achieved my goal of not arriving at 50 like I was on july 31st. Then I saw myself on Aug 1, 2007. I one yr. anniversary. Strong, committed, balanced, active, healthy and alive living this lifestyle.

    My focus has gone thru, survival, results, interspection, and now has 3 more markers out there to work towards. In none of these pictures do I see my body image, I sense attitude and lifestyle in these pictures.

    This has impacted my current day, my most immediate focal point. It has set me on high. This is how I will live above the emotions.
    74 8/1/06
    SW225/CW142/GW135 83lbs GONE!
    2 YEARS and 9MONTHS!!! I've been here
    Jess Female/51/5'3

    www.jdudley.blog.com blog site

  • #2
    Re: Focus

    Great Post!

    I think you've figured out that you have to get your mind right to get your life right! So much of our experience here on earth is our attitude and reaction to our experiences! Sometimes I write "B+" on the back of my hand in ink pen - (Be Positive!) because if I react positively to life I am happy and successful!

















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    • #3
      Re: Focus

      I love your post. Its true, you go through so many emotions while you are transitioning in this program.

      I feel it is important to stop and evaluate yourself, your life and the program often. I have and I think its kept me from straying many times when things weren't going my way.

      Changing your ways to improve your life takes a lot of planning and committment. You have to be serious about it to make it happen. When I first started, I just wanted to lose weight. Then, I made a plan that included achievable goals, a realistic plan to achieving my weight loss and my other dreams included. Thats when it suddenly became a way of life. I didn't have two separate plans as I'd always had before 1)the diet plan / 2) the life plan. I put my Weight loss plan first and added my life plan into that. Thats when it all clicked for me.

      Thanks for posting this...I think it is good for everyone to see how far they've come and instead of being discouraged, re-evaluate how to keep going and improve more.
      Starting Date 3/12/04 285/165/145 - F



      Dedication gives wings to our dreams and keeps them in flight! In One Word...COMMITTMENT.

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      • #4
        Re: Focus

        This is exactly right. It is time to remember that this is not about a diet. This is about our way of living. This is how we choose to live and life has ups and downs. Highs and Lows. By keeping our eye on the prize ( a healthier lifestyle) we can get past the occasional slump in weight loss. It is just a number. Not our life.

        Nice post.
        149.8/no weigh/ 119



        1st goal: 139 (earlier weight)
        what the rungs mean to me:
        rung 1 - more veggies
        rung 2 - dairy (some milk in coffee)
        rung 3 - seeds, nuts (mostly sprinkled on salads)
        rung 4 - berries, melon
        rung 5 - wine -
        rung 6 - beans, hummus
        rung 7 - other fruits
        rung 8 - carrots/ potatoes (nah, prolly not)
        rung 9 - whole grains (fresh Dutch breads...)
        Major Goal - 128 lbs/ healthy range
        (on to pre-maintenance)

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        • #5
          Re: Focus

          Atta girl!!! What a breakthrough you have had.
          Elsie150
          Female 44, 5'
          SW241/CW215/GW150
          Never Ending Induction Recipes
          http://www.atkinsdietbulletinboard.c...n-recipes.html

          You may encounter many defeats, but you must not be defeated. In fact, it may be necessary to encounter the defeats, so you can know who you are, what you can rise from, how you can still come out of it. ~Maya Angelo~

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          • #6
            Re: Focus

            Wow, Jess ~ as always, your thoughtful insight really spoke to me! What a great way to put this all into perspective... i'm right there with you... thanks for sharing your thoughts today, and congratulations on the breakthru!!! You really helped me to get back on track with myself today... in terms of looking at the "big picture" instead of being gloomy about the day to day frustrations...

            And i have to really thank you ~ because you motivated me to get back on track with exercise today! I was all set to go take a nap with Luna, but after writing with you on PM i got motivated to do the Firm, and i feel so much better having done it... i enjoy weight training & seeing the changes in my body, even if the scale doesn't say what i want it to say each day... so thanks, girl!!!

            Female, 35 ~ 5'6"
            Start Date: 6.21.2005
            New Start Date: 4.5.2010
            Overcoming sugar addiction one day at a time.

            "The body cannot be cured without regard for the soul." Socrates

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            • #7
              Re: Focus

              Good Job Jess!

              This is what we need to see. It is good that Jess saw this. We all need to look at this.
              Mouse? I don't need no stinkin mouse!


              22 / M
              Goal: 186
              Mini Goal: 215
              Current Weight: 380
              Started Atkins: Aug. 15, 2006

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