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    Ok, not that I wanted to, but I'm here to ask for help. Wait, I think I already started wrong - I'm supposed to start by saying, "Hi. I'm Michigander, and I'm a carbo-o-holic." Ok - now back to the help. I need help sticking to this all over again.

    Low carb is the only way I've ever been able to stay at a fit weight. Don't ask me why, but it's sooo very much easier for me to gain weight back than it was to take it off. Last summer I was 35 pounds less than I am now - and every 5 pounds that came back, I swore they were the last.

    Until now - that I realize having a "sort of low carb" attitude doesn't work. It's all or nothing again - no such thing as "this little bite won't hurt", because it does. Sure, I steer away from sugars more than I did before, and instead, now I eat the pizza crust thinking it's not as bad as a cookie - but it really is, because I'm doing it on a daily basis. It always comes back to bite you, because my body knows carbs very well, and can store them for a VERY, very long time!

    Oh - and here's another dillema. During one of my brilliant moments last summer, I decided I'd never be fat again, and gave away all my fat pants, and now I've GOT NOTHING TO WEAR!!! I thought it would be good incentive at the time, but now 1/2 of my wardrobe is screaming uncle when I zip them up!

    I guess it may be time to re-install the "wall of shame". My incentive last year, was hanging all of my adorable jeans on the wall, so that daily, I could see what I could be wearing. It was such an accomplishment when the last pair went from the wall the the closet. They're going back up tonight.

    Thanks for listening, and I'm just going to say in advance - thanks for taking me back!

    Re-re-re-re-started 2/19/08
    F/29/5'9"



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    Re: Sad to be back

    hi Michigander:
    I just started back here too, but I figure 3rd times the charm!
    Your post actually made me laugh, but I definitely hear what you're saying...it's so hard isn't it, when you realize you
    really have gained a whole lot of weight back? I'm in the same boat. I thought, "well I'll just try my jeans on...haven't worn them for 6 months, but it's probably not that bad". Yah..WRONG! I could barely get them on! But that was the catalyst for me coming back. I'm glad you're here...nice to meet you!

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      Hi michigander, I enjoyed your post; it was as if I had wrote it all about myself. LOL I think it's wonderful when we realize we need to come back and would be more concerned if we didn't. I will When I regained most of my weight, I was so ashamed, but now I feel so good that I have made the right decision based on what we already know--that it works. Welcome back!
      ~Babs
      F, 51

      STAC MEMBER
      Route 66 Challenge 6/250miles
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      • #4
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        Preach on, Sister, preach on.

        Got rid of the fat pants? Yep.
        The "sort-of-low-carb" approach? Yea, there was a spectacular failure.

        I am just a tad bit upset with you for doing an unauthorized biography of me though...

        You had to be talking about me. It's all exactly right except the amount that I gained back.

        Think of it this way- It took Edison over 1,000 tries to come up with a light bulb that worked. Why should we complain if we're only on the second or third or forty-eleventh time? At least we're trying

        QSECOFR
        327/316/199, 4 days
        Well, we've never let fear and common sense stop us before...

        Most famous last words: Hey y'all, watch this!!

        Second most famous last words: Well shoot, if he can do it...



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          lol, looks like your talkin about all of us @ STAC,

          I came back when i realised i had no clothes to fit into cos i'd sold them all on ebay!

          Good Luck to you!
          HW 303
          Aug '04 SW-287 LW-232
          Restart - Apr 07 - SW 266 CW 225




          "Don't let your past dictate who you are, but let it be a part of who you become."

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          • #6
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            Hello from a Fellow Michigander! lol

            I consider this my 2nd time around because I got thru my 2nd week and had a better committment than the unofficial 2nd time I tried. lol

            Welcome back, it sounds like you have a better outlook and I am sure you will do well. Just remember we are here for you!

            Hugs, Mel
            ~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~
            222/ 210.6 /155
            Phase-Extended Induction
            2nd Time Around
            Mini Goal: 200 lbs...10.6 lbs to go!!
            Age-34 /Height-6ft / Female

            Proud Mommy of
            Matthew 13, Jesse 10, Gabriel 7 and Emma 5

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            • #7
              Re: Sad to be back

              Thanks for the support ladies. Let the journey begin. I'm starting to get excited that my weight chart has finally started to have a downward arrow instead of a constant upward one. It's till short, but hopefully by the end of the month - I'll definately see some major progress.

              That make me feel so much better that you guys have had the same problem with giving away your fat clothes. I guess I shouldn't spend too much time wishing I had them, and more time working on getting into the ones I do own.

              Re-re-re-re-started 2/19/08
              F/29/5'9"


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              • #8
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                Welcome Michigander!

                Hey I left you a post in Roll Call, I'm so sorry I didn't see this one first!!

                Seriously, if you have any questions, or concerns, don't hesitate to ask!!

                You can do this, we're all in the same boat!

                We'll get your clothes feeling better in no time. I dropping all my clothes off to Goodwill later this week, it's still a weird feeling, I don't want to ever need them again!

                Anyway, Welcome!
                Scooter







                Remember this everyday - Something Wonderful Is Going To Happen Today. If you live by that decree you will live life to the fullist.

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                  Welcome back. So happy you've recommitted and decided to make this a way of life. There's lots of incentive here to keep you focused. Write down what events caused you to backslide before and make plans now to overcome them should they arise again. If you have a solid plan -- you'll be able to overcome obstacles when they arise and resist the temptation. Best wishes!!
                  Starting Date 3/12/04 285/165/145 - F



                  Dedication gives wings to our dreams and keeps them in flight! In One Word...COMMITTMENT.

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                  • #10
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                    Welcome Michigander! Like everyone else, you could have been telling my story. Came back after 25 lbs and this forum has helped me more than anything. It's a great way to stay positive and motivated. If we could bottle the motivation, we'd all be wealthy.

                    Best of luck to you...keep posting cuz we're all in this together! Don't forget to celebrate EVERY success!
                    "Confidence is the companion of success"

                    Female
                    Age 56
                    5'9"
                    Restarted 2-4-09

                    1st Mini Goal - 5 lbs - Met 2/21/09
                    2nd Mini Goal - 10 lbs - Met 3/7/09
                    3rd Mini Goal - 15 lbs - Met 3/15/09
                    4th Mini Goal - 20 lbs
                    5th Mini Goal - 25 lbs
                    6th Mini Goal - 30 lbs
                    End Goal - 35 lbs























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                      [QUOTE=huggija] If we could bottle the motivation, we'd all be wealthy.

                      Isn't that the truth!!!
                      Scooter







                      Remember this everyday - Something Wonderful Is Going To Happen Today. If you live by that decree you will live life to the fullist.

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                      • #12
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                        Hi!! I myself got rid of all my " fat " clothes the first time on Atkins and then I found myself wishing them back because I was gaining again...that was a whoa moment...do I really want to fit back into my old fat clothes?? Yeah those size 18 American Eagle jeans were pretty darn cute but guess what...they make them in a size 10 too I like your wall of incentive idea, thats cute. I thought about getting some size 12 jeans at Goodwill and putting them in the closet as incentive. Atkins is the only thing that works for so many of us. I mind myself amazed that more people arent on it!
                        SW~215
                        CW~ 205
                        GW~ Whatever I feel good at!!

                        Its not about what I have to lose...its what I have to Gain!!!

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