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  • Ok. I set mini goals I can live with...

    I HAVE A NEW ATTITUDE TOWARDS MY WEIGHT LOSS...

    I thought a lot last night about the pressure I have put on myself. I realized if I set mini goals I will feel like I can actually achieve them. Rather than saying my goal weight is 140 (and I am 230....) that makes me feel hopeless. That goal seems unreachable and I think thats why sometimes I allow myself to just give up...

    SO, my mini goal is to lose 20 pounds by June 4. When I reach that one, I will start a new mini goal. I also have decided to weigh myself ONCE each month. On the first of each month I will weigh myself and take my measurements. I have also decided to begin a daily food/excersise journal ( I did this the first time I did Atkins when I lost the 50 pounds in 4 months). Hey if I don't want to write it down, maybe I shouldn't be eating it right I also have realized that I do need to excersise everyday. I have a gym membership and I really hate to go so I began walking on my lunch break. I felt very out of place and uncomfortable huffin and puffin away on the treadmill feeling like everyone is starring at me. You know what. Who cares. I am not going to let anyone intimidate me or make me feel uncomfortable anymore. And on the weekends I am taking my two kids to the park. I need to be more active. I have to be careful because I have arthritis and it is difficult to work out and walk laps but I am going to try really hard everyday to get atleast 1 hour of excersise. I have been drinking so much more water too. I really do know that helps.

    I feel so much better now that I have set mini goals. I will feel so rewarded as I reach each mini goal I set. I think it will help me to stick with it rather than just get so frustrated at the huge goal I had set for myself. I think of it this way, in a years time I will either be close to my goal, the same weight or lord forbid even bigger. I would really like to lose atleast 50 pounds by Xmas. Think I can do it? I do.



    Thanks for listening. I love that saying nothing tastes as good as being thin. Boy that sure is true. I never appreciated when I was thin because I guess I just took for granted I would always be that way. Isn't that sad.




    Angela




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    Re: Ok. I set mini goals I can live with...

    Hi Angela!! I think you can absolutely do it and more!! You have a great attitude to start!!
    Heather
    Female

    Weight unknown; pants size 18

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      Hey there....you know, in discussions I've had with friends and coworkers on the subject of overweight people, everyone I've ever talked to has said that seeing someone who is obviously overweight working out, walking the dog, or huffing and puffing on a treadmill in a gym, is a sight that makes them think, "Good for you!", and they end up feeling respect for that person and the steps they're taking to live a healthier life. There are always going to be those types who laugh, but they're probably not anyone you'd want to spend time with if you were beach-body material or not. I certainly know the feelings you describe, but I love your turn-around in attitude and your determination to see this through. Your kids are going to be so proud of you, and think of the great example you're setting! Never give up, never let them get you down, keep your eyes on the prize..... We have one go at life, so we may as well jump in and take control over the things we can.
      Hats off to you my friend~~
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        hey morning glory....i agree. those mini goals make it easier for me to stay focused...my weight mini goals are in 5 pound increments....and the others....drink the water, do the exercise and check them off the list...those are easily attainable.

        believe in yourself....you are so worth it!!!





        started atkins 2/18/07
        5'7"........193/150/150

        "it's not having what you want; it's wanting what you've got"
        "you can't control the ocean but you can learn to ride the wave."

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          ooops,,,,i meant this as a response to angela's post! (told ya i am a techno geek)





          started atkins 2/18/07
          5'7"........193/150/150

          "it's not having what you want; it's wanting what you've got"
          "you can't control the ocean but you can learn to ride the wave."

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            Re: Ok. I set mini goals I can live with...

            Now THAT is a great attitude! I think all of those things are going to be very helpful for you.
            Hey there....you know, in discussions I've had with friends and coworkers on the subject of overweight people, everyone I've ever talked to has said that seeing someone who is obviously overweight working out, walking the dog, or huffing and puffing on a treadmill in a gym, is a sight that makes them think, "Good for you!", and they end up feeling respect for that person and the steps they're taking to live a healthier life.
            I couldn't agree with this more! I love seeing people of all sizes (and ages) working out. I am happy that they made the decision to take care of themselves. At first, I was uncomfortable with the perfect body people there, but I quickly started to enjoy myself and realized that I had no chance of one day looking like them unless I was there!
            ~Brandi
            35/F/5'8", Type 2 Diabetic
            July 27, 2003: 145/ Aug 31: 135/ Goal: 125
            Fell off the wagon in Nov 2003
            Restarted several times since then
            June 2009 168.. Lost 15 lbs after starting work
            Feb 24, 2010:153/139/130-135ish
            size 14/10-12/8









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              Re: Ok. I set mini goals I can live with...

              Hey Angela, Goals are great! They provide direction and vision. I applaud your thoughts and plans! This is what creates a lifestyle that will actually taken you somewhere and help you sustain what you accomplish!
              I love goals!
              74 8/1/06
              SW225/CW142/GW135 83lbs GONE!
              2 YEARS and 9MONTHS!!! I've been here
              Jess Female/51/5'3

              www.jdudley.blog.com blog site

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