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    Ever think of something to yourself that would be so grand, but don't know how to get it started?

    Well, I am using this site, hoping that this could be an outlet.

    I know I haven't posted for a while, I got a new job, and trying to reformulate my whole routine.

    This has absolutely nothing to do with weightloss (unless you believe that relieving stress contributes to weightloss, and giving relieves stress for me).

    My thought includes a prelude of a story.

    Every Christmas Eve me, my husband, my son, my brother , and my neice spend the night at my dad and stepmom's house. We wake up at 6:00 am and open gifts, then everyone passes back out. My dad and I wake up at 10 and start the steak for steak sandwitches and we drink wine (maybe weird to some, but it has been a tradition for 7 years now). We then wake everyone, hang out, get stuffed and enjoy the afternoon before we wonder out to each of our other branches of family events. This is Christmas to me. I don't remember the gifts over the seven years, but I do remember the laughter, and the hugs and kisses of my most favorite people in the world on this special day that we all have off and preassigned to one another.

    Well, this year my father and stepmother (who both have jobs in the construction industry, which in Michigan kinda stinks right now) are not able to spend what they normally would on Christmas. Basically buying for the grandkids only. You could sense when they told us this on Halloween, that it bothered them to tell us this. Right away we all piped up with "We can still come over Christmas Eve, right?". And that is what led to the idea I want to spread.

    I WANT THE THOUGHT BEHIND THE GIFT FOR CHRISTMAS!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

    I don't know about you, but I think the thing I wan't the most is knowing that I mean something to someone else. Like posting on here, My first thought is does someone think of me as an inspiration, or feel what I'm going through.

    When I look through sale ads or shop on websites I always see things that make me say "wow I wish I had the money to get that for my dad, he would love that". But when you think that, there's a reason. There is something that you know that person loves to do, or a memory that an item brings to mind, that makes you think that person.

    THAT THOUGHT IS WHAT I'M ASKING FOR FOR CHRISTMAS.

    I don't care if its written on a corner of ripped paper, all I want is what someone would get me, and why.

    I think that if I had these little thoughts, whatever bad day I was having, I could look at those and know that someone else that means more to me than my current problem, was thinking of me.

    Just a thought that I hope someone else might share.

    Mandilyn
    HW 255
    SW 205
    CW 193
    GW 150
    RE-START - 8/27/07
    FIRST START 6/06-9/06 (SW/225 REACHED 180)
    F/29/5'6

    MINI GOALS 193 9/7/07
    195 9/03/07
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    Re: Thought behind the gift

    I guess I should add just a bit more to this. What I'm looking for is maybe you know someone in your life that thinks the world of you, and you would rather have their thoughts than their money. Let em know. Let them know that you value what they think of you. That you hope to see them for the holidays, rather than hope they get you a particular gift. That they don't need to get you something you'll probably never use, and just spend their thoughts on you. And if they feel the need to get you something you don't need, that you would rather they found an outlet of charity to give to. This is all just an opinion of someone who thinks that the thought of a truely beautiful holiday shouldn't be trashed by the hatred of crowded malls and traffic jams, but a sense of people loving people, and letting them know we do love them.
    HW 255
    SW 205
    CW 193
    GW 150
    RE-START - 8/27/07
    FIRST START 6/06-9/06 (SW/225 REACHED 180)
    F/29/5'6

    MINI GOALS 193 9/7/07
    195 9/03/07
    190 9/10/07
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    • #3
      Re: Thought behind the gift

      What a beautiful thought. And I love the way you and your Dad have set up time to spend together. You're right about the malls and traffic jams, and you can see the stress that this supposed wonderful time of giving is causing.





      290 lbs. on 11/02/07 Goal: 145 lbs. or size 14 whichever comes first!

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      • #4
        Re: Thought behind the gift

        I truely think that when I give myself over to a cause or purpose, I don't need food to make me happy. I love people, and I need to put forth more effort to fulfill that sense of caring rather than satisfying it with food. I think that any effort of fulfilling one's self sense of purpose will fill that void that we all want to fill with food. Accomplishment, thats the key word. If you are doing what you feel in your heart of hearts, I think all else will fall into place. If you are strong enough to realise that your voice can be heard, you can fill that void with your purpose instead of something as easy now of days as fat saturated, carb, and sugar loaded food. We are all above this crap that we put in our bodies, and we all need to find that alterior presorvation. Look at Outback Jess. Look at what she's wanted to do with her triatholons. That is incredible. THAT IS WHAT SHE HAS SET OUT TO ACCOMPLISH , AND DAMMIT, SHE HAS!!!!!!!!! I truely believe atkins is the way of life for me because of the things the my particular bodie craves in food, but I feel the reason that I eat so much, and go so far over the top is that I have a lot of ideas that I think I can't make a reality, so I stuff them away, and get my satisfaction from the things that I can easily have in this life. I am realizing how strong I am, and that a lot of snowflakes put together are the cause of an avalanche. I'm one of the snowflakes. I believe we all share some great ideas, and I'm finally coming to the conclusion that I need to stand up for my beliefs, cause thats who I am. Not just some overweight person, that no one would ever listen too.
        HW 255
        SW 205
        CW 193
        GW 150
        RE-START - 8/27/07
        FIRST START 6/06-9/06 (SW/225 REACHED 180)
        F/29/5'6

        MINI GOALS 193 9/7/07
        195 9/03/07
        190 9/10/07
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        • #5
          Re: Thought behind the gift

          Wonderful Post...brought tears to my eyes...I have always thought Holidays are for Family being together. I am not one on getting gifts...I do Love to give though...and thinking back..seems my children have always appreciated what they got...whether it was a great gift or a not so great gift....because we have seen some rough times in the beginning..I can not remember hearing anything negative from them...I am thankful for this. Just being together is what it's all about...we do crazy ornament exchanges...that is the highlight of our giving...seeing what the other comes up with...big tradition!..loads of fun.
          LISA

          ATKINS RESTART/JUNE 07
          Restart again...Jan. 3rd 2010
          STARTING WEIGHT...177.6
          CURRENT WEIGHT.....166.2
          GOAL WEIGHT....150

          TOTAL FAITH WILL GET YOU THERE!!









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          • #6
            Re: Thought behind the gift

            Well, your first post captured my heart soooo completely. I read it twice. Then your second post again realizing what "fills you" going a bit further. Then you somehow felt a link to my efforts with triathlon and that amazed me...but I saw the link.
            Sounds like Atkins and eating right and thriving is allowing you to step forward to live from places of deeper meaning. Something has released enough confidence to break out of the old ways and into newly inspired ways. I of course can relate to this!
            I've left all the old mundane hopeless ways of going around the mountain. I am happily seeking new heights of my life.
            Personally while in Australia I came to even greater understsanding about food and freedom. Low carb foods are ones I completely thrive on. While in Australia, I had to eat higher carb foods and my choices where not the norm for my body...as the sugars came back, they robbed me of energy and left me fatigued and feeling quite ill....I hit american soil and embraced my foods all over again. My body has returned to me all settled down, my energy is slowly rising above the jet lag and I feel the thrive coming back and with it, living for higher things!
            I eat to live, not live to eat. Food is no longer that central focal point, other deeper desires are! I get your posts, I really do girl!
            74 8/1/06
            SW225/CW142/GW135 83lbs GONE!
            2 YEARS and 9MONTHS!!! I've been here
            Jess Female/51/5'3

            www.jdudley.blog.com blog site

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            • #7
              Re: Thought behind the gift

              In our family, we quit the name-drawing or giving gifts to everyone. We now do a White Elephant gift exchange, and every year it's SO funny!! More than anything, we simply enjoy being together, eating and drinking good, looking at pictures from the recent and distant pass, maybe having a chance to ice skate or snowmobile.

              Just yesterday, I saw something I would love to give to one of my brother's for Christmas. But we don't do the BIG exchanges because that puts a lot of pressure on those who are struggling financially at the moment. You get torn between wanting to buy something for someone else and starting something up again that can put others on the spot.

              Frankly, I love the Christmases now this way - no big expectations or disappointments with the gifts. We simply relish the time together and make the most of it.
              ~ Terry ~
              Eat to Live, Not Live to Eat
              ~ Carpe Diem! ~

              Getting ready to restart

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