STAC Monday Roll Call

[Sweets]

Re: STAC Monday Roll Call

Hello,

A little late for roll call .. but I am here!!! Had a WOOOSHIIEEEEE this morning!! Yay Me!!

Sandy--Hang in there... everything always works out.. think of your blessings rather than what you don't have or need!! )

I hope you all are having/had a good day!!

[SandyL2002]

Re: STAC Monday Roll Call

Well you have made it this far and like you said you cannot give up!!!

Stacy will keep you in my prayer, since it is the holidays, why does you husband not offer tree decorating for a fee, or even to decorate the whole house for a fee like a light hanging fee??? I am at my wits ends on living paycheck to paycheck so I feel ya. But things will get better with the days.

Always
Yvette

Was this for me? Hubby takes down the trees for a living...I can barely get him to decorate outside for me here. .he absolutely hates that kind of job..so that wouldnt' work..

[SandyL2002]

Re: STAC Monday Roll Call

Hi, Sandy.

It is 25,000. I guess that's why it's so hard for me to let go... I really feel resentful as it took a lot of self-restrain and being financially responsible to get to where we are, and it still is such a shock to my system.

I couldn't eat the entire weekend... I attribute it to me feeling extremely insecure... I can't help feeling insecure... And it just spiralled downwards since...

I am okay when I put my mind into my work, and help finalize the closing of the house for my fil... but when my mind starts wandering back to that 25,000... I go ballistic again...

I really am tired... and I wish this whole issue will just go away...

At the root of it, I know it is not the 25k... but the fact that it is so easy for my hubby to give away the money that we saved through lots of delayed gratification... it's a feeling of deprivation... And it's becoming a beast of its own... =(

I will try to let go... This resentment and anger is not doing me any good... It's just so hard...

You have the RIGHT to be concerned.. that is a lot of money.. How does he plan to repay you? What kind of house is buying that he needs that kind of money down.. It doesn't seem like he is ready to take on a house that size..

I hope you and your husband come to an agreement.. I am proud of you for having that kind of money save.. But PLEASE make sure you have funds for yourself.. cause you may NOT get that money back

[SandyL2002]

Re: STAC Monday Roll Call

Is there any way that you could loan it to him (interest free perhaps)with a schedule to be paid back? That way you could still help him, but you'd eventually get all or part of your money back.

I agree with Sheepie.. Set up a payment plan.. and have it in Writing just in case... I have watched enough court case on tv...

[SandyL2002]

Re: STAC Monday Roll Call

Hello,

A little late for roll call .. but I am here!!! Had a WOOOSHIIEEEEE this morning!! Yay Me!!

Sandy--Hang in there... everything always works out.. think of your blessings rather than what you don't have or need!! )

I hope you all are having/had a good day!!

Thank you.. I am trying to stay positive...but its hard

[partytrouble]

Re: STAC Monday Roll Call

hi guys,
sounds like we are having some rough times as a group. i am sorry. everyone hang in there, do the best you can, and come here for support.