It's really difficult for me to ask for help, but I need your help. I need to lose between 70 - 80lbs.
I have been watching/listening to anthony robbins and he has help me plan for success - I've got nearly everything in place, a great diet - a good exercise plan, new beliefs. But I don't have any peers. One of the ways to succeed he says is to have friends that have already succeeded - those that will keep me in check, on track and who will not take any excuses (because they've heard them all and made them all).
The problem is I don't have any friends, let alone any friends who have successfully lost weight. Its sad I know. My only friend is my husband who is slim, muscular - and yet doesn't exercise because he thinks its a waste of time. He also thinks dieting is a waste of time too. So I started thinking about where I could get some friends (this sounds so utterly sad!) and I ended up here.
So if there is anyone out there who has lost 50lbs or more and is on lifetime maintenance and is willing to message me each week or occasionally for updates and a kick up the butt when needed I will be soooo grateful. Obviously I have nothing to return other than honesty and friendship and of course a lifetime of gratitude when I succeed (forever optimistic!).
The best thing for me would be a public visitor messages on my profile so I can be held publicly accountable for my action (or inaction).
I am going to go now. I can't believe I have told everyone that I have no friends, this is pretty embarrassing I have to say.
I have been watching/listening to anthony robbins and he has help me plan for success - I've got nearly everything in place, a great diet - a good exercise plan, new beliefs. But I don't have any peers. One of the ways to succeed he says is to have friends that have already succeeded - those that will keep me in check, on track and who will not take any excuses (because they've heard them all and made them all).
The problem is I don't have any friends, let alone any friends who have successfully lost weight. Its sad I know. My only friend is my husband who is slim, muscular - and yet doesn't exercise because he thinks its a waste of time. He also thinks dieting is a waste of time too. So I started thinking about where I could get some friends (this sounds so utterly sad!) and I ended up here.
So if there is anyone out there who has lost 50lbs or more and is on lifetime maintenance and is willing to message me each week or occasionally for updates and a kick up the butt when needed I will be soooo grateful. Obviously I have nothing to return other than honesty and friendship and of course a lifetime of gratitude when I succeed (forever optimistic!).
The best thing for me would be a public visitor messages on my profile so I can be held publicly accountable for my action (or inaction).
I am going to go now. I can't believe I have told everyone that I have no friends, this is pretty embarrassing I have to say.

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