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    Today's my one-month "anniversary" here! I have lost 10.5 pounds and I can wear my "fat" jeans again (cuz I had outgrown even those before I started Atkins). So far I am really pleased with the transformations I'm seeing in my body composition. I haven't been exercising as much as I should (I take a college-level water aerobics class twice a week for two hours for my PE requirement and I've been doing some toning exercises...but nothing strenuous really).

    I must confess...I've been deceiving my husband about my Atkineering. He believes in science and evidenced-based practices and he says that the preponderance of evidence is on the side of the low fat/low cal and "calories in/calories out" crowd. He is also convinced that Atkins is unsafe and unsound (generally from our acquaintances who did Atkins WRONGLY back during the low-carb craze a few years ago).

    So...when I started this I didn't tell him what I was doing. Before beginning, I told him I was feeling weak and sluggish and that I was going to give up drinking alcohol (which was starting to creep up to like three or more drinks per night) and try to eat better. After I started, I told him I was doing the "meat and greens" diet: that would be meat/egg/cheese and leafy/green veggies only, until I felt better.

    I'm sure he was skeptical. Anyway, he and the kids went away for a week on vacation to his parents house while I stayed here to finish some research projects for school and to take care of the pets. When he got home, he was like: "Whoa...you're melting...and you have muscles...what have you been doing?" I said (flippantly): "Meat and greens, Babe."

    OK...so this weekend we made hamburgers for supper and he ate his without a bun on a bed of leafy greens...just like mine! And then yesterday, he says he went to a burrito place for lunch and ordered his without a tortilla (but he had the rice and beans). He's trying to copy my WOE! I think he's on to me though, because I scolded him for the beans and rice and he said: "What's wrong with beans and rice?" Me: "er...um...well, they're not meat/egg/cheese or leafy greens are they?" He: "And they're high in carbs, aren't they?" Me: "uh...well...probably... Just stick to the meat and greens, OK?!"

    So...I know I shouldn't deceive him about my WOE, but I also feel like it's none of his business really. It's working for me, and I'm enjoying it. The fact that he is trying to copy me is proof that something good is happening to my body and that he not only notices, but is impressed by it. Eventually I will tell him, because I want him to experience these good results for himself. However, I want to make sure that I succeed first by becoming fit and healthy, because then he can't deny the benefits of this WOE, despite what the current scientific "experts" say.

    So, that's my confession. Bring on the debate~

    I'm looking forward to month two!
    -Jamie
    39 yo F / 5' 6"
    Started Atkins: 6/27/07

    It's not what you do today that makes a difference...
    It's what you do everyday that makes the difference.

    .R-3.....R-4.....R-5.....R-6.....R-7.....R-8.....R-9.
    o o o...o o o...XXo...o o o...o o o...o o o...o o o
    R0 R1 R2

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    Re: One Month and a Confession

    Ha! Lol! That is so funny!
    Congratulations on your success so far! You are going to have some 'spaining to do missy!
    so funny!
    liz
    Highest wt 227
    Atkins start wt 215
    Restart 1/29/10 201
    Current 195
    Goal 149








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    • #3
      Re: One Month and a Confession

      I really loved reading this post. Sometimes people need proof. And thats what you are giving him. Huge step with him copying your eating habit! He's coming around! And if he wants science, highlight the scientific explanations in the book for him. Even find other supporting articles. The proof is there, he's just choosing to read what he believes. I say goodonya!
      30/F/5'6"
      Start Weight 245+lbs. in January 2004
      rerererererestart 6/08/2007 @ 185
      6.2 FEET of FAT GONE
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      • #4
        Re: One Month and a Confession

        Indeed, it's a tangled web I'm weaving. Plus...(and this might be truly evil of me)...if he starts this WOE right now, he'll reach his goal way before I reach mine because men have more success with this than women do. Then I'll be mad and jealous. I need a good head-start on him.

        It's not that I'm competitive or anything...
        -Jamie
        39 yo F / 5' 6"
        Started Atkins: 6/27/07

        It's not what you do today that makes a difference...
        It's what you do everyday that makes the difference.

        .R-3.....R-4.....R-5.....R-6.....R-7.....R-8.....R-9.
        o o o...o o o...XXo...o o o...o o o...o o o...o o o
        R0 R1 R2

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          Re: One Month and a Confession

          Lol! I can relate! so unfair how easily men lose wt compared to women! I think it's great what you are doing for yourself... sometimes telling people too soon is the worse thing you can do... then they start telling you what you're doing is wrong, etc... and you start having to defend yourself, which is stressful... sometimes it's easier to just say... aw, just eating healthy... and exersizing.... you don't have to tell EVERYTHING! Also, the control issue is that right now you have control of you... when other people start butting their noses into your business, well sometimes they try to manipulate you into doing things THEIR way. Who wants that... it's nice to have a secret sometimes, especially a good one...
          Keep up the good work! You are doing awesome!
          liz
          Highest wt 227
          Atkins start wt 215
          Restart 1/29/10 201
          Current 195
          Goal 149








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          • #6
            Re: One Month and a Confession

            Yea for 10 pounds done!!! Woo hooo!!!

            Now that's pretty funny, and smart-sneaky. I'm sure you're hubby's a smart man and "figured things out", but like I said, he's a smart man and knows he married a smart woman if he's trying to "replicate" your woe. Although, you can't really hide the weight loss. LOL.

            April 2007: 212
            Today: 190:D :walking
            1st Goal 189
            Goal: 165




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            • #7
              Re: One Month and a Confession

              Good for You! My hubby (who's a diabetic) has joined me in my "swiss and pepperoni" evening snack instead of his usual bready, sweety stuff. What fun to deceive (in a loving way)!
              Kate

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              • #8
                Re: One Month and a Confession

                I, too, have tired from defending myself and my reasons for eating this way. After all these years (and several attempts - met with varying degress of success) I've decided to over-simplify.

                Now, whenever anyone asks me "What IS it that you're doing?" my reply usually sounds something like... "I just cut out the sugar and starches..." That usually wraps things up nicely. I avoid the term "carb" at all costs. The lectures that ensue are as frustrating as they are time-consuming.

                If more questions arise, I generally launch into an unsolicited rant about the evils sugar does to my body, energy levels and craving indexes. And once I get started on THAT topic, well... the questions tend to peter out, and the subject seems to change very quickly.
                Female - 5'4.5" - Induction Start 2007/07/09 RE-START 2008/04/16

                S.W. 175.0 - RE- S.W. 180 (yikes!)
                First Weigh-In: 167 (July 22, 2007)
                Re-Start 1st weigh in: TO BE ANNOUNCED MAY 1/08
                Weigh In 2: 165.0 (As of July 27/07)
                Weigh In 3 156.5 (As of August 21/07)
                G.W. 135.0 RE-START G.W.: Same

                Non-Smoker since February 24, 2008. I did THAT, so I can do THIS. Yay ME!

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                • #9
                  Re: One Month and a Confession

                  Weigh to go! Your weight loss and better health are living proof, which is always more convincing than something you see on TV or read in the newspaper.

                  Have you started OWL yet? Just wondering how you were planning to tell him that you're now adding more foods into your diet.

                  I've always told people that I was on Atkins, that I was finished with the initial phase of meats and salads, and that I was now in the process of adding back healthy carbs gradually to see what effect they had on my body. I've never gotten arguments about how unhealthy that is.

                  I'll tell anyone that I'm on the Atkins Maintenance diet right now. It's a real education for them to find out that the Atkins diet does allow bananas, corn, potatoes, bread, rice, etc. (provided you are doing it properly). Most of them think the Atkins diet is all about eating lots of meat and they are very surprised to find out that I eat only modest amounts of meat but large amounts of vegetables and fruits.
                  ~Attek

                  Start Atkins 4/26/04 - 159
                  Goal 10/31/04 - 120
                  STAC 1/17/07 - 137
                  Goal 4/9/07 - 120
                  F 5'6"
                  SW 137/CW 120/GW 120
                  Maintenance

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                  • #10
                    Re: One Month and a Confession

                    Hi, Attek! Yes, I have started OWL. I'm on the veggie rung still, which fits with my "meat and greens" explanation. I believe that even as I progress through the other rungs, the amounts of such new items will be limited (I'll call them "treats") and my main diet staples will still be meat/eggs with leafy greens and non-starchy veggies.

                    I don't like to use the word "Atkins" just because it invites so much grief. I think anytime you name a diet, people automatically consider it a fad. With my other friends, I just say I am trying to "cold turkey" off the sugar, refined foods and starches. No one tries to keep me from doing that!
                    -Jamie
                    39 yo F / 5' 6"
                    Started Atkins: 6/27/07

                    It's not what you do today that makes a difference...
                    It's what you do everyday that makes the difference.

                    .R-3.....R-4.....R-5.....R-6.....R-7.....R-8.....R-9.
                    o o o...o o o...XXo...o o o...o o o...o o o...o o o
                    R0 R1 R2

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                    • #11
                      Re: One Month and a Confession

                      I simply tell people "I don't eat 'white' food". Makes em think and stop asking questions.
                      Candy
                      female/age 48 restart date 4/30/07
                      mini goal 180 by 7/28/07 achieved!
                      mini goal 170 by 11/1/07


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