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    Hi - Sorry for the long post, but I wanted to share some fantastic information I got in a newsletter this morning on goal setting. As many of us focus on our goals for 2007, I think that this information is particularly valuable.

    (As a note - I wrote down, and re-wrote my goals every day for 1 month in July 2006. July 24 I started this WOE and haven't looked back.... Coincidence ? (since this is my 405th diet - and the only one I've ever stuck with - I don't think so)

    Motivational speaker Jim Rohn once said, "I find it fascinating that
    most people plan their vacations with better care than they plan their
    lives. Perhaps it's because escape is easier than change."


    Success psychologists say that 95% - 97% of the people in the world
    do NOT have written goals and fail, while 3-5% have written goals
    and succeed.


    If these statistics are correct, then Mr Rohn's observation really IS
    quite fascinating isn't it?


    Unfortunately for most people, the odds for success are actually
    even lower, because out of the few people who do set goals, most
    don't take goal setting seriously, they don't do it scientifically
    and they only do it once a year.


    Goal setting is so important, that I always teach goal setting and mind
    dynamics first, and only THEN, do I teach nutrition and training second.


    It doesnt matter how much you know about nutrition or exercise. Until
    specialized fitness knowledge is linked with goals and directions, the
    knowledge is useless and you won't accomplish very much or keep the
    changes long term.


    In fact, I devoted the entire first chapter of my book, Burn the Fat,
    Feed the Muscle (www.burnthefat.com) to the subject of goals and constructive
    "mind programming" for successful, permanent behavior change.


    I've also studied neuro linguistic programming (NLP) for many years and
    more recently spent many months researching the latest information about
    neuroscience to see just how much of the traditional self help and
    goal setting wisdom is actually backed by brain research.


    As you start thinking about your goals for 2007 right Now, I'd like to
    help you start the year off right by sharing two very valuable, science
    based tips on acheiving your goals:


    TIP #1: Repetition is an effective way to "plant" a goal in the non-conscious mind

    Why don't most resolutions stick? Psychology and neuroscience today are
    giving us the answers.


    Thanks to new technologies in brain imaging, such as PET scans, SPECT scans
    and functional MRI's, we can now actually see your thoughts as electrochemical
    impulses and we can see the formation of new neural connections in real time
    right before our eyes.


    We can also see where, geographically, in your brain, a particular type
    of thought is occuring.


    most importantly, we can see how long it takes to form strong neural
    patterns and what types of stimuli cause the patterns to form more quickly


    Here's what we've discovered:

    Setting a goal once is a conscious activity. Willpower is also a conscious
    activity. But research has shown that at least 5/6 of your brain power is
    in the non conscious mind and that the information and instructions that
    reach the non conscious mind are responsible for your automatic behavior.


    Some pyschologists believe that 95% of our behaviors are unconscious and
    automatic... more commonly known as habits.


    Long term behavior changes don't take place when you set goals one time
    as with most new years resolutions. There's an old saying in "self help"
    circles that it takes at least 21-30 days to form a habit. This has now
    been proven to be fairly accurate on a neurological basis.


    New neural patterns begin to form only after they've been repeated enough
    times. They continue to strengthen with further repetition. If you make
    resolutions on January 1st and you don't continue to repeat and reinforce
    your desire for those "goals," no new neural connection is formed, no new
    habits are formed, no new behaviors are formed....


    Your resolutions wither away and die and any results obtained through
    willpower (trying to force the new behaviors through conscious effort),
    are quickly lost when you slip back to your old ways.


    What you repeat over and over again is programmed into the subconscious
    mind and begins to take root. On a practical level, this means RE-writing
    your goals everyday and thinking about them in positive terms and in mental
    pictures, every day, repeatedly until the habit is formed and turned over
    to "auto-piliot."


    In 1956, when Earl Nightingale wrote "The Strangest Secret is that we become
    what we think about most of the time,"
    we didnt know what we know now about
    the brain.


    Nevetheless, Earl was right.

    You don't change your body by trying to change your body. You change
    your body by creating new habitual patterns of thinking and visualizing.


    Trying to force new behaviors with willpower while continuing with your
    old ways of thinking will always fail because your automatic behavior is
    mostly under non-conscious control.


    Its not the resolution you set once... its the goals (mental thoughts and
    images) you focus on all day long that create the long term (and automatic)
    behavioral change... when you change your behaviors, you change your body
    and your life...



    *** TIP #2: Emotion is a goal-turbocharger ***

    Is there any way around this tedious process of "mental programming" through
    repetition? Not really. The fields of NLP and hypnosis have given us some tools
    for creating more rapid changes, but ultimately you have to begin to "run your own
    brain" and change your habitual way of thinking. No one else can do it for you
    and there's no way around it.

    there is however, a scientifically proven way to to speed up the process and
    that is with the use of strong emotion.

    Since modern imaging technology can see activity in the brain and scientists
    have located the seat of emotions in the brain, we know that the strength
    and number of neural connections associated with a thought or behavior are
    increased when you're in a highly emotional state.

    The neuron connections are also stronger, longer lasting and it takes longer
    to lose a neural connection when it was formed with great emotion.

    With this knowledge, we see another reason why new years resolutions
    fail: They are set casually with no emotion and no strong emotional
    "reason why" that gives you the leverage to you need to make a change
    permanent.

    On January 1st, you may think you're setting "real" goals, but if you're
    like most people, you're not only doing it a mere once a year and then
    losing focus, you're also likely to be making flimsy, wishy-washy,
    emotion-less "resolutions."

    Zig Ziglar once said that, "A goal casually set and lightly taken will
    be freely abandoned at the first obstacle."


    You might want to back up and read that quote again, maybe even write
    it down or print it out, because this one hits the bull's-eye!

    This truly explains why New Year's resolutions almost never work, and
    why so few people can keep off the pounds after they get rid of them.

    Goal setting should not be casual or lightly taken. Goal setting is an
    important and serious matter. This is not a game - this is your life,
    and you only have one life to live.

    Goal setting is also not a one time event - it is an ongoing process
    of literally "re-wiring your brain." With the discovery of brain plasticity,
    we now know that this is science fact, not self-help fiction.

    Make the time to set REAL goals, today! Take it seriously, do it
    scientifically, re-write your goals every day, think about them constantly, g

    et emotionally involved with them and then take massive action

    Do it and this will be the most successful goal-achieving year of your life

    Train hard and expect success.

    Tom Venuto, NSCA-CPT, CSCS
    Author, Burn The Fat, Feed The Muscle
    http://www.burnthefat.com
    http://www.burnthefatinnercircle.com

    F/40/5'2"
    Start: 7/24/06




    Current: Lost 49.25 pounds & 49.4 inches
    For weekly stats: http://www.atkinsdietbulletinboard.c...ad.php?t=38056
    Mini Goal: 90 kg/198 lbs <= MET Wk 13 - Oct 23
    Mini Goal2: 83 kg/182 lbs<= MET Wk 19 - Dec 30
    Mini Goal3: 75 kg/165 lbs (drivers license weight from YEARS ago!)
    Long Term Goal: 20% body fat! THEN I've made it!

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    Re: New Years Resolutions &amp; Goal Setting - Long

    Great Post! Everyone in my "circle" is wondering how I am sticking to this WOL. I have not cheated and will not cheat - they are surprised - I made it through Thanksgiving, Christmas and New Years.

    My little secret is my little 5 1/2 X 3/1/2 Mead Five Star notebook where I write my goals, keep my food diary, exercise diary, notes, recipes and most of all at every mini goal, I re-write my list of why I CAN DO this and am HAPPY to be doing it!!!
    Stella


    **********************
    Start Date: 11/17/06
    SW 286 / CW 244
    Mini Goal 250 by 2/1/07 MET 2/11/07!
    Mini Goal #2 230
    GW 175


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      Re: New Years Resolutions &amp; Goal Setting - Long

      This is a great post. I've decided that I'm not going to set a weight goal for a couple of reasons. First, I really have no idea how much I would weigh being thin and having lots of lean muscle. I've been thin and healthy when I was younger, but I have no idea if that would translate into what I would weigh as a fit, middle aged lady. Second, I tend to sabotage myself when I have real success on scale. So I'm going to make food and fitness goals instead. So I'm going to make a calendar that includes things like trying a new dish twice a week which I can manage. And I'm going to plan out my fitness goals long term. Instead of just trying to get a 'good workout' I will plan how many minutes of cardio to increase each week, etc. Thanks for pointing this out.

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        Re: New Years Resolutions &amp; Goal Setting - Long

        This is ABSOLUTELY how I've made my success with this WOL this time around. Now, I haven't exactly written down goals in a bound journal...but I talk about it daily here on ADBB. I guess when I think about it, that's what my journal chat is about.

        Anyway, in the beginning you force yourself to do it, get over it, get past it, don't eat it, whatever....but pretty soon it starts being second nature to you. These techniques have also what I've done for quitting smoking.
        ~Joy

        Start 1/2/06 Goal 6/11/07 restart 1/2/09
        268.5/196/185
        QUIT SMOKING JULY 23, 2006 while on Atkins


        Just when you think you've eaten enough vegetables...EAT SOME MORE!
        http://www.fitday.com/WebFit/PublicJournals.html?Owner=ride2joy

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          Re: New Years Resolutions &amp; Goal Setting - Long

          Originally posted by Stella
          I have not cheated and will not cheat - they are surprised - I made it through Thanksgiving, Christmas and New Years.
          for me, this is the critcal thing: something in your head (and heart?) clicks over, and you have made that primary decision to change or achieve. mindset is everything.

          i've kept journals for other diets and religiously documented in them, even though i was not totally committed and thus, failure ensued.

          F/38yo/5'8" ...HW: 255... CW: 255... GW: 175


          "Extraordinary efforts yield extraordinary results."

          the REAL lulubell (yeah, that's right, i'm 14 lbs!)

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