I don't know how to say and post this. I am not sure if yall let me do that.

[DeafAngelBlueEyes074]

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Ok!! That's right, no one supporting me for that. Now I'm happy that yall supportive people around me for now. it's make me kinda of afraid cuz here is stranger to me do u know what i mean?

[MaxsmamaDebbie]

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Hello Blue Eyes,

The truth is, that you aren't doing a diet because you are going to eat healthly for your lifetime. You are eating veggies and meat. What could be wrong with that; in fact, it is WAY better than anything your cafeteria is serving your peers. Those fries, chicken nuggets, and pizza may look good now and not show on those kids eating them, but wait till your five year reunion when you are still slim and healthy and their metabolism has slown down and they look bad! You can do it. You can!!!!

Every day wake up, look in the mirror and say to yourself...I AM WORTH IT! I LOVE ME!

Deb

Ok!! That's right, no one supporting me for that. Now I'm happy that yall supportive people around me for now. it's make me kinda of afraid cuz here is stranger to me do u know what i mean?

[DeafAngelBlueEyes074]

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Hello Blue Eyes,

The truth is, that you aren't doing a diet because you are going to eat healthly for your lifetime. You are eating veggies and meat. What could be wrong with that; in fact, it is WAY better than anything your cafeteria is serving your peers. Those fries, chicken nuggets, and pizza may look good now and not show on those kids eating them, but wait till your five year reunion when you are still slim and healthy and their metabolism has slown down and they look bad! You can do it. You can!!!!

Every day wake up, look in the mirror and say to yourself...I AM WORTH IT! I LOVE ME!

Deb

True. I'm going to drink alot because I'm sick, yucky. My cafeternia is yucky and loss food, they are allll same thing to eat. i hate it. but there have some of salads. I'm being love to drink water!!! I just going to be senior this fall so, they don't have to worry about me, right? Ok, i will do that every day and wake up. U make me feel much better.

[GaynorA]

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Hey there. Yeah ... I know it's a bit weird because all these people who don't know you personally are giving you words of encouragement. And it can feel a bit overwhelming. But I'll tell you why we are offering support. Because we all know how it feels to be overweight. And most of us have gone through people telling us not to do Atkins. And a lot of us haven't had great support when we lose weight on this way of eating. That's why the board was created - so that people would have a place to come and be supported by other people who know how it feels. So that's why we are encouraging you. Because we want you to feel supported. And all of us are behind you knowing that you can do it.

[DeafAngelBlueEyes074]

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Thanks, GaynorA. My mom need it,too because she have problem with her thyroid. I'm really worry about her. And try to tell her to lose weight but it's not work it out. Yep, I understand how the people's feelings about others make fun of us. think it's wrong. because no one perfect to be fat or slim or whatever. and try do our best to lose weight.

[GaynorA]

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Yes my love. I agree. Everyone is different and I think it would be a happier world if people could just be supportive of other people and let them be. Sorry to hear about your mom's thyroid problems. That must be scary for you. Does your mom know about the Atkins board? We will be here for her too if she wants to join in. Have a great day. Today when you go into school remember that there is only one person in the whole world who is you. No-one else can ever be you. Often we look at these sexy film stars and we think: "Oh ... I just wish I could be her". And we can't be. But the really great thing is: they can't be YOU either. So celebrate who you are today. The world is a better place because you are in it. Lots of love to you.

[DeafAngelBlueEyes074]

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Yep, Mom did join here for long time ago but i don't know why she stopped come here, her username is JudyinMS, is my mom. Oh I will remember and get your word what you're going to say at school. I will not thinking about others said about me right? or not? What if others keep talk negative about me? Im easily get mad and angry at them, and want to 2 faces to them. But I won't try do that cuz i will get into trouble.. How I can say to them if they talked negative about me and my diet?

[GaynorA]

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Hi luv - you know what ... some people are just NEVER going to understand. Is it worth getting all troubled about what they think. They don't understand and they probably never will, because they seem to have made up their minds without the facts. I'd just let your way of eating do the speaking for you. Because as you start shrinking ... it's going to become pretty clear that it isn't a fake diet and that it is working for you. So you just keep on sticking to you Atkins. The weight will fall off ... and then you'll be smiling because you will obviously be right. Lotsa luv to you.

[Ellectra]

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hiya if you need a friend to talk to just let me know! I have a video phone. YES dont worry about what people say you will show them! just email me. i am also new on day 6 right now. Maybe we can go thru this together.

[Depmiester]

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Yep, Mom did join here for long time ago but i don't know why she stopped come here, her username is JudyinMS, is my mom. Oh I will remember and get your word what you're going to say at school. I will not thinking about others said about me right? or not? What if others keep talk negative about me? Im easily get mad and angry at them, and want to 2 faces to them. But I won't try do that cuz i will get into trouble.. How I can say to them if they talked negative about me and my diet?

You could ask them how your diet is any concern of thiers. After they answer say something like "interesting" then walk away. Or maybe the best thing to say is nothing at all. I used to get angry when others would pick on me (high school was awful), and the more angry I got the more fun it was for them to pick on me more. Not only that but thier friends would start too!
I don't remember how I got the idea, but I started looking at them and saying nothing. At first they kept at it, but in a few days all of them were bored and even looked embarrased since no one else was laughing. They couldn't laugh at me, I wasn't upset anymore, it wasn't fun if I wasn't angry or crying.
All of the teasing I put up with was not about weight (I was thin then), but it was just about me being unpopular. So even if you were thin and not on a diet, these same people might make fun of you. You can be thin and beautiful and perfect in every way and would still have to learn how to deal with these strange people anyway.

[DeafAngelBlueEyes074]

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hiya if you need a friend to talk to just let me know! I have a video phone. YES dont worry about what people say you will show them! just email me. i am also new on day 6 right now. Maybe we can go thru this together.

Ok!! I will let you know! Why not? I think it's good idea.

[DeafAngelBlueEyes074]

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You could ask them how your diet is any concern of thiers. After they answer say something like "interesting" then walk away. Or maybe the best thing to say is nothing at all. I used to get angry when others would pick on me (high school was awful), and the more angry I got the more fun it was for them to pick on me more. Not only that but thier friends would start too!
I don't remember how I got the idea, but I started looking at them and saying nothing. At first they kept at it, but in a few days all of them were bored and even looked embarrased since no one else was laughing. They couldn't laugh at me, I wasn't upset anymore, it wasn't fun if I wasn't angry or crying.
All of the teasing I put up with was not about weight (I was thin then), but it was just about me being unpopular. So even if you were thin and not on a diet, these same people might make fun of you. You can be thin and beautiful and perfect in every way and would still have to learn how to deal with these strange people anyway.

I will do that, i will not get upset when they do that to me, I'm brave girl i can't wait to hear from yall to said "STAND UP" And "dont let them down me" right?

[Depmiester]

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It does take practice, but it's worth it. I'm glad to hear that you're brave. I know I am thinking of you and remembering how I felt when I went through the same thing. I'm sad to think that kids/people are still mean for such silly reasons. Remember us when others hurt your feelings, we truly do care, and we know how if feels to be treated badly.

[DeafAngelBlueEyes074]

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Yep, thanks u so much! Ok, I will remember you guys how yall feeling. We can ignore them and do try our best to get on diet and let them down so, remmeber don't let them down yall or me. Agree with me?