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  • You Won't Know If You Don't Go!!!

    good morning friends here in atkins land! well, i have a little thought for all of you today. i am posting here since i am not really sure where it goes. please bear with me.

    this is a big week for me. i am getting married to the most wonderful man in the world on saturday. it has been a time of real reflection for me. mostly about who i am and why i am here at this point in my life. i was writing in my journal today and told adena about a comment a friend always makes to me and i will share it here as well. feel free to stop by my journal and check it out there if you are interested.

    anyway, i have been here on the board since march. i have met so many AWESOME people. i see so much courage, smarts, motivation, determination, fight, drive, wow the list goes on. sadly, i sometimes also see people who are afraid and hurt, afraid mostly of FAILURE. it is such a human thing to be afraid of not accomplishing something we really want to do. it is HARD WORK to achieve anything we set out to do. it is also true of losing weight and inproving our health.

    i set out to lose about 40 pounds for this wedding. the determining factor for me was to weigh the same thing i weighed on my first date with my fiance. i wanted to feel GOOD. i did this for ME. i also, as a side issue, wanted him to have the same woman he met and fell for...ONLY BETTER!

    joining this board was hard for me. i am pretty private. starting a journal was almost like getting "nekkid" in front of strangers. i knew that i had to do it to be successful at this. I NEEDED TO BE ACCOUNTABLE. i read a lot, i worked hard, i started doing things that i read about others doing. i learned to love exercise again. i started seeing success. when i hit a slump, all of you were here to push me over it. i finally met my goal about a week ago.

    now...i want to set new goals. maybe i will RUN again. maybe i will up my workout. maybe i will lower my goal (145 sounds good!) maybe, maybe, maybe...today the possibilities are endless....because today i am a LIFESTYLE GIRL! that's right jess. this is my LIFESTYLE. in fact, today i weighed in at 150!!! holy moly! i know now that i can do almost anything i put my mind to.

    now to the point of all this. i have an old boyfriend (we dated 25 years ago!!!) and we are STILL good friends. he is an old surfer guy (and yes, i HAVE surfed before and it is an AMAZING experience!) i asked him once what he looks for when he is sitting in the line-up waiting for the right wave. he explained to me that sometimes you just don't know for sure. sometimes you just have to take that chance on something that looks good and might work. he always used to say to me "YOU WON'T KNOW IF YOU DON'T GO."

    think about that and say it aloud "YOU WON'T KNOW IF YOU DON'T GO." did you take a chance on anything positive lately. did you doubt yourself at all with this program? do you wonder about your own capabilities and/or possibilities????

    if so, i want you to make this your mantra..."YOU WON'T KNOW IF YOU DON'T GO." take a chance. give it your best. don't doubt yourself. you are so much stronger than you think. you can do, you can achieve, you can succeed at anything you put your mind to it. ALL of us are going to be successful at this wonderful healthy lifestyle because we are going to GO. give it 100%. this board is the greatest tool i know of. that along with your own hard work and determination makes you a success EVERY DAY. don't wait til you make your goal to feel successful. GO and find out!!! JUST GO!
    Last edited by misplaced southerner; June 27, 2007, 11:23 AM.





    started atkins 2/18/07
    5'7"........193/150/150

    "it's not having what you want; it's wanting what you've got"
    "you can't control the ocean but you can learn to ride the wave."

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    Oh Betsy, I really, really wanted to give you a rep point for this post but, I got the dratted "spread the love" message!

    As usual, you are right on target with your words and have lit a fire under me.

    There is not a doubt in my mind that you will run again, or anything else that you set out to accomplish. With strength and determination such as yours, the sky is the limit. I admire you so much for this and aspire to adopt those qualities for myself.

    If you don't mind, I would like to use your mantra as my new siggy.
    Doin' Atkins: Cuz my hips don't lie either.
    Paula
    33/f




    Faith makes all things possible - not easy.

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    • #3
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      This is a very inspirational post love! Thanks so much for enriching us with another fantastic MANTRA! I said it aloud and teared up. This not only applies to this WOE but life in general. I am suffering insecurity about a job promotion and this mantra really means alot to me today. Thank you so much and a big Congratulations to not only your weight loss but mostly your wedding! I'm so happy for you!
      30/F/5'6"
      Start Weight 245+lbs. in January 2004
      rerererererestart 6/08/2007 @ 185
      6.2 FEET of FAT GONE
      In MY JOURNAL, you can say BOOBIES!





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      • #4
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        MS, I saw this thread title and thought... hey, that sounds familiar... coincidence? Nope! I'm so glad you shared this with everyone.

        This board has shown me that so much is possible. MS, your transformation and growth -- and that of so many others. I saw Paula (I think it was Paula) say earlier than somone was shrinking on the outside and growing on the inside... I thought that was a perfect way to describe this Atkins journey.

        I've failed on so many "diets." But, all the evidence here of people who KNOW Atkins is successful because they gave it a GO couldn't be argued with. And it's the support I receive daily from those people that keep me going, and make me try new things that support my health... running, weight training, daikon, jicama... and next: hula-hooping (God help me!)

        Thanks for a great post, B! You are an incredible person, and your beau is so lucky to have you.
        F/37/5'7" ~ Started: 8/1/06.
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        • #5
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          Thanks for sharing Betsy, very touching.
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          SW 418
          CW 283
          GW 218
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          • #6
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            use it paula!!! YES! and say it to yourself EVERY DAY!!!

            hi disco!!! thanks for your good wishes...and YES...USE it for LIFE IN GENERAL. you just never really know WHAT will happen do you? but if you GO.....ah ha!!! the possibilities!

            adena...girl YOU ROCK! i LOVE my hula hoop baby! add it to YOUR list of places to go! shrinking on the outside and growing on the inside...I LOVE IT!

            hiya brady!!!! where will YOU go? BTW...psycho pup is hangin' with my dad's 2 mini-dauschaunds....SHE is QUEEN!

            anyone else want to GO!?!?!?!





            started atkins 2/18/07
            5'7"........193/150/150

            "it's not having what you want; it's wanting what you've got"
            "you can't control the ocean but you can learn to ride the wave."

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              I'm going to hijack just long enough to let Adena know that as much as I would like to take credit for it, I'm not the person behind that amazing quote.
              Doin' Atkins: Cuz my hips don't lie either.
              Paula
              33/f




              Faith makes all things possible - not easy.

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              • #8
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                Great post! Its so true, this WOE has definitely pushed many of us out of our comfort zones and given us the chance to explore new horizons. Thanks for posting this today!
                Starting Date 3/12/04 285/165/145 - F



                Dedication gives wings to our dreams and keeps them in flight! In One Word...COMMITTMENT.

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                • #9
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                  Originally posted by misplaced southerner
                  anyone else want to GO!?!?!?!
                  I'm going, baby! Thanks for the push.


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                  • #10
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                    What a great post.. I want to wish you also the most wonderful Wedding day on Saturday..we will all be there in spirit
                    Sandy
                    40th birthday June 27,2009


                    Starting Weight 293 Highest Weight
                    Current Weight 271
                    Goal Weight 150
                    Female/40

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                    #2-Get into 250's-
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                    • #11
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                      Thanks for that honey. You enjoy your day - you have worked so hard for this. I just know that you are going to look absolutely gorgeous ... but more importantly than that, you have grown so much in your understanding of self and of your body. Well done. Big hugs to you.
                      Start weight: 103.6 kg (227.92 lbs)
                      Goal weight: 80 kg (176 lbs)
                      Now weighing in at ...... 95.6kg (210.32)
                      Total loss = 8 kg (17.6 lbs)



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                      • #12
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                        Originally posted by PaulaMM
                        I'm going to hijack just long enough to let Adena know that as much as I would like to take credit for it, I'm not the person behind that amazing quote.
                        I'm amazing


                        hahahahahaa!
                        30/F/5'6"
                        Start Weight 245+lbs. in January 2004
                        rerererererestart 6/08/2007 @ 185
                        6.2 FEET of FAT GONE
                        In MY JOURNAL, you can say BOOBIES!





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                        • #13
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                          This is such an amazing post. It gave me a real shudder up the spine and a few tears in the eyes. What a wonderful achievement and what a wonderful gal. I love the sense of real happiness people express on this site (like you today), and along with a good old wedding it can't get any better.
                          I too am very very shy and find it hard to give away too much info on such a public forum but I welcome you and all the others that have the courage to talk about their lives here.
                          I wish you happiness, love and continued success with this WOL. Keep us posted on the great day.

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                          • #14
                            Re: You Won't Know If You Don't Go!!!

                            Oh and I just forgot. I love your quote "you can ride the ocean but you can't control the waves". I sailed around the world with my DH in a very small boat a few years ago and encountered many challenging situations (like almost dying ha ha) - taught me that anything is achievable!

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                            • #15
                              Re: You Won't Know If You Don't Go!!!

                              Way to go, Betsy!

                              Fear holds us back way too often. Sometimes I think we're afraid that we might succeed when we try something. Then we'd have to keep on succeeding. Too much pressure! It may be easier to quit than to have to keep trying. You're right, we only get one chance at this life and we need to make it worthwhile.

                              Go get 'em, girl! The world is wide open with opportunities and I know you'll take advantage of all that you can!
                              Caryl
                              Start 2/21/2007 212
                              CW 6/22/2008 167
                              Goal 124
                              F 49 yo

                              Even if you're on the right track, you'll get run over if you just sit there. Will Rogers

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