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    When your the fattest

    Lately i have been so bummed about my weight. I hate that i am the fattest person i hang around with. I feel like all my friends, family and co-workers are all thin and attractive and im the big fat ugly one. I know i shouldn't think that way but it's hard not to.

    My coworkers are all about my age but very fit and cute. THey also like to talk about how hot they are all day too (lame) but it sucks to hear all the time... My fiance's brothers are all married to perfect blond hotties and my sisters and his sisters are all very good looking .. then theres ME ...

    UGGG i hate it!

    Anyway .. i'm just venting..

    Have a good night everyone!
    26 / F / 5'3 - start 9/9/09
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    Re: When your the fattest

    Sarah, you're making great progress. Time will pass before you know, and you'll be talking about how hot YOU are right alongside your co-workers. Okay, maybe not. But try to instead focus on what you're doing to make yourself fit and healthy and feel and look great when you start to have those thoughts. Consider looking even BETTER than those girls motivation! I know, it's easier said than done. But hey -- you're beating the carbs; you can certainly beat a little attitude!
    F/37/5'7" ~ Started: 8/1/06.
    Links: My Journal~ On "loose" skin

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    • #3
      Re: When your the fattest

      P.S. And happy birthday!!
      F/37/5'7" ~ Started: 8/1/06.
      Links: My Journal~ On "loose" skin

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      • #4
        Re: When your the fattest

        Let me put it like this...I know your here and dedicated to atkins to lose weight but i hope first and foremost improve your health!! You are very very beautiful at anyweight dont forget that!! Its ok to keep in mind that beauty is in all shapes a sizes because then you will truly love YOURSELF when you are thinner.So many people drop weight and are still unhappy because they didnt except themselves at their worst and learn to love what they are at the time.Dont do that to yourself ! Hold you head high girl because your worth it remember your weight does not define your beauty.And people who talk about how pretty they are all day truly have some issues...stay humble and know you are right their with them be your own STAR PLAYER!!
        Chivon H
        Current weight 223
        Mini goals:220/200/180/160
        Ending goal 160

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        • #5
          Re: When your the fattest

          The next time you look in the mirror, but sure to look at the beautiful person that is looking back at you. Being beautiful starts on the inside. Don't be afraid to love yourself for who you are today. Just because you are thin, it dosen't make you a better person.
          sigpicCeeMarie 267/236/180 (-31 lbs!)
          56 pounds to Goal! I will do it!
          Next mini goal is 229 -
          Big goal 199 - Wonderland for my son's graduation!

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          • #6
            Re: When your the fattest

            Sometimes changing your life means changing your friends as well. If they love and support you great. If not.... you always have choices! Great job on your journey so far. Good luck and Merry Christmas!
            bigROB

            Eat Atkins and look good clothed.
            Eat Atkins and exercise and look good naked!


            First Month-Down 16lbs 10/13/2008
            Second Month-Down 16lbs 11/13/2008
            Third Month-Down 15lbs 12/13/2008
            Fourth Month Down 15lbs 01/13/2009
            Fifth month down 14lbs 02/13/2009
            83 pounds lost to date 37 pounds to go!


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            • #7
              Re: When your the fattest

              I know the feeling.... I am the only one in my circle of friends/family who is over weight. I did manage to lose 25 pounds before my brothers wedding but when you have 100 pounds to lose 25 doesn't look like that much... Anyways we just got back the wedding photos today. I have mixed feelings about them... I was only in one photo... I am glad to have a picture with my brother but am saddened because I would like to be in more pictures but at the same time am glad that I am only in one cuz it means less people will see me.... wierd huh??? Let's stay positive and focused on this WOE!!! (I do admit to cheating the last couple of days while doing all my christmas baking...)

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              • #8
                Re: When your the fattest

                Hey! At least you have a man!!

                Seriously, I think we all know how that has felt. You will get there. We all will get there.
                F/35/5'7
                Start 11-7-08

                Weight:
                285/242/150? 140? What ever looks best on me!

                Dress size:
                20/16/10? 8?

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                • #9
                  Re: When your the fattest

                  I agree that being beautiful starts inside... and you are beautiful.
                  I also understand your feelings when you make comparisons. Many of us have, or have had, those same feelings.

                  When you feel negative, try to focus on yourself at goal. Physically smile, even if you don't feel like it and the good feelings will follow the smile.
                  You'll get there sooner than you think and when you look back it'll seem like the weight loss phase passed in a flash. Think how proud and bouyed you'll be when you do hit that magic target!

                  Hang in there... we're all in this together!
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                  Start 10 Jan 2005. Maintenance since Aug. 2005.
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                  • #10
                    Re: When your the fattest

                    Alot of the thin HOT chickies that I know are not healthy & are actually not in very good physical health.
                    You are well on your way to being a healthy HOTTIE!!
                    "You always had it. You always had the power."~~ Glinda the Good Witch

                    Glenda
                    F/5'10/47
                    261/xxx/???
                    "Happiness is a habit~cultivate it." Elbert Hubbard
                    "Insanity is doing the same thing over and over again, but expecting different results." Albert Einstein

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                    • #11
                      Re: When your the fattest

                      Believe Me!! I know the feeling!!!! Ughhhhhhh It's almost a daily feeling for me sometimes.

                      Can't wait until we are the ones talking about how hot "we" are. hehe


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                      • #12
                        Re: When your the fattest

                        I am the youngest of 4 skinny sisters and 1 lean brother.....I have often felt I got the mutated gene or something; I had to get used to people assuming I was older than my siblings but it really hurt once when this assumption was made between myself and my 7months PREGNANT sister!!! 2 of my sisters were models and I have been told on a couple of occasions -by insensitive dimwits- how it seemed unlikely I could be of any relation to such beauties...lol

                        I can attempt to recount countless hurtful moments concerning my looks....and because of these negative proclaimations I at some point started to believe it and so acted accordingly. Until someone reminded me that God made no mistake when creating me...that I am as perfect now as I can be minus a 20kg , so I started saying to myself; looking straight into a mirror I'd say " I am sooo beautiful, perfectly beautiful, so intelligent as well...my what a mixture! God truly went all out when making me!". I started saying it to people, I'll turn to my cousins and proclaim " Goodness am pretty!".........and a year later with no weight lost yet, I was commisioned to consider losing weight so I can compete in a pageant!!

                        Because I started believing that I indeed was perfect and enough right this minute I almost subconciously started making other choices that brought this fact out...cos suddenly doing my hair was not an annual event, taking care of my skin was important, finding the right make up etc.......love yourself, validate yourself (dont rely on others to do it), praise yourself excessively.

                        You are perfect, perfect perfect!!!!!!!! RIGHT THIS VERY SECOND!
                        TORI
                        Female
                        21yrs old
                        Height: 5'8
                        Start weight: 170lb
                        Current weight: 156lb
                        Goal weight: 121lb

                        steadily but surely

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                        • #13
                          Re: When your the fattest

                          Originally posted by OzLover View Post
                          Alot of the thin HOT chickies that I know are not healthy & are actually not in very good physical health.
                          You are well on your way to being a healthy HOTTIE!!
                          I so agree!! I know a lot of skinny, unhealthy girls (one of which is my bf's brother's girlfriend so I know the feeling you have!). Girls who won't walk two blocks or just eat chips and chocolate all day. They are skinny but they are not healthy. We are working our way to being healthy and thin all at the same time. Surely this way is better! And those girls who talk about how hot they are? Hmm...sounds like they have problems to me! Even if they are hot, who says things like that? They must still be either very insecure or very shallow- either way you don't want to be that either! You are doing great!!
                          ~Amy~

                          5'7", 24 years old
                          (Re-)Starting Weight- 225-- Current Weight- 164.5 -- Goal Weight- 150

                          1st mini goal- 200lbs : Met 5 March 2008!l 2nd mini goal- 185lbs : Met 3 December 2008!l 3rd mini goal- 170lbs: Met 5 February 2009! l 4th mini goal- 160lbs l Goal!- 150lbs




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                          • #14
                            Re: When your the fattest

                            Thats the reason boards like this one are so awesome. Here you are not the fattest or the worst loser or the thinest or the best loser. You are one of this family, and we understand your feeling because we feel the same.
                            Next year this time, you won't be the fattest with your peers either and they will look to you for inspiration.



                            41 pounds down and counting

                            If you don't know where you are going, you will wind up somewhere else. - Yogi Berra

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