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    hi..all... what do you all do about dating a new guy? I have a strong feeling this man at my gym who keeps eying me and now talking to me alot will ask me out... lol... I can't see going out for a drink.. or popcorn and soda at the movies... dinner.. yes... I can do that... but... he has a beer or whatever and I have my water? any ideas? I am just a couple of lbs from my goal... any suggestions? thanks.. LIa
    LiaHello, I am an autism advocate. I urge you to take care of your immune system as vaccines have heavy metals that will damage your brain and nervous system. GREEN OUR VACCINES... take the toxins out of the vaccines. 1 in 150 children are diagnosed with autism and the numbers are increasing. It is a man made epidemic as there is no such thing as a genetic one. Thank you for reading!!

    5'2
    Starting weight 135
    Current weight 115.0
    Goal weight achieved!!!!!

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    Re: Dating and Atkins

    Lia


    You should go for it girl! Flaunt what you've got. Accept him up on his offer, but be upfront with him. If he tries to take you somewhere and he orders a beer, take a water. Or a diet drink (it doesn't hurt to have caffeine every ONCE in a while. xD ). If he tries to get you to drink a beer, just tell him truthfully - you can't, your diet won't permit it. He'll understand. Most people would. If he's familiar with Atkins himself, maybe that'll end up in him taking you somewhere where you can make atkins-friendly choices.

    Even if he says, "Shoot girl, you don't need to diet!" just tell him you know what your normal weight should be, and that 5 more pounds won't hurt. Be strong! Don't let a handsome face persuade you out of your last few pounds - but certainly don't give up the chance to go have fun!
    SW: 243 / CW: 235 / GW: 135

    Week 1: Down 5 (5)
    Week 2: Down 3 (

    Inches Lost So Far: 8.3

    Height: 5'7"

    If a tree falls in a forest out of hearing range of any living organism, did it make a sound?

    If a person eats yummy stuff without counting the carbs, did it have carbs to begin with?

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      I am totally understanding where you're coming from on this one. Here, let me make you feel better. At least you're so very close to goal and I'm guessing itty bitty by your weight!! I'm far off from goal and I'm totally gonna be the "still fat" girl who is ordering a salad and drinking water. How many comedians have had fun with that stereotype??!! There, do you feel better now? You should! LOL!





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      232.5/162/160
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        Re: Dating and Atkins

        If I could remember back that far, I would try to help you out! I haven't been on a date for over 20 years, and I haven't been asked out for over 15 years.

        Since you both go to a gym, you have every right to maintain that you only put into your body what you think is healthy. You could always go for coffee. Or, if at a bar, you could order club soda with a twist of lime.

        Ask to go somewhere fun, some kind of outdoor adventure. Go skating or hiking.
        People who say it can't be done, should not interrupt those doing it.


        "Some men give up their designs when they have almost reached the goal; While others, on the contrary, obtain a victory by exerting, at the last moment, more vigorous efforts than ever before."
        ~~Herodotus


        Doin' the "Real Deal" Atkins 2002 since 9/15/2005
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          hi.. all.. thanks... all those ideas sound good... now.. all he has to do is ask me out... Lia
          LiaHello, I am an autism advocate. I urge you to take care of your immune system as vaccines have heavy metals that will damage your brain and nervous system. GREEN OUR VACCINES... take the toxins out of the vaccines. 1 in 150 children are diagnosed with autism and the numbers are increasing. It is a man made epidemic as there is no such thing as a genetic one. Thank you for reading!!

          5'2
          Starting weight 135
          Current weight 115.0
          Goal weight achieved!!!!!

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            Re: Dating and Atkins

            Originally posted by Lia View Post
            hi.. all.. thanks... all those ideas sound good... now.. all he has to do is ask me out... Lia
            ...Then again, you could always ask him out. Most guys don't mind it and this is the 21st century after all.

            Best o' luck.
            PBK - M/45/6'3"
            You're not a failure until you quit trying.

            Restarted Dr Atkins Diet January 2 2010.
            Next mini goal is to get under 300 lbs. Done! 3/8/10
            Next mini goal is to make it three months without alcohol. Started 1/1/10 Done!
            Next mini weight goal is 289. Done! 4/4/10
            Next mini goal is 278 -50 Lbs
            Eventually, I'd like to join the century club.

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