What makes you mad about thinner people? and whats your insipration!

[Mommy2LittleMissBellaBre]

Hi Everyone Im Loni and Im wondering What Makes You MAD by a thinner person or just your weight in general and What are your inspirations on making your goals Which im sure all of us wanna be healthier . I ALSO IWANNA BE A SKINNY ***** maybe well maybe thats just me lol.

Anyways Here are some of my Big chubby jelousys and thoughts and what makes me mad..

• My cousin is a size 00 and eats everything in sight.. shes also a mean little girl and pokes my stomach like im winni the pooh or the pillsberry dough boy..i dont say whooohoo.

• My sister was a size 14 now a 8 and in florida right now in a bikini!

• My mother who was also a size 16 is now drum roll please ..a size 8.. how they lost the weight I.b.s I wasnt so lucky! lol

• When i want I.B.S to make me thin..

• When i see a Women in Her 80s in a bikini and im 21 and not in one and im jealous!

• How A thinner Girl thinks just cause im thicker im not a threat in the men department.

• When i walk into american eagle or one of the stores like that and i get looks when i buy things like Yeah right u wish.. or i get asked will you need a gift recipet for this. and its no where near Christmas!

• When i get told oh you have such a pretty face just lose the weight!!.

• When my ex likes to feed me so i stay fat so he doesnt have to worry as much that ill meet someone else.

• when my mother gives me the look of horror when i bend over .. yes i have a big butt get over it!

• How i pick out a size in a store and pray it will go over my big butt while i put my leg in one by one.

• How mad i get if they dont go on.

• when my mother and sister dont respect the fact that i like this diet and they will throw in my face any sugar in sight!

• i hate how i can step on the wii fit and it tells me im obsese and makes me fat!( yes it has you skinny at first and compared to your weight makes you fatter or thinner)

• you no its bad when a video game tell you your fat! lol

Ok so Now My inspiration so i meet my goals.

• I wanna Be healthier for My Daughter Aurbrey who everyone can see from the oversize picture!

• I want to be able to walk into a store and not worry if they will have the my size!

• I want those Looks and Comments to Stop!

• I want to turn heads.

• Next june when i go to florida i wanna be in the bikni.

• I want to feel comfortable and sexy in my own skin!!

So what are some of your pev's and inspirations! Maybe when you write it out You wont think about that Sugar snack by you.

[lovebunnyok]

Re: What makes you mad about thinner people? and whats your insipration!

Food for thought...as it were...

Being thin is not the end all be all of things. Your life does not start when you BECOME thin. Who you are now will be who you are then. If you feel sexy inside then you will project it outward.

Sexy is a state of mind, not body. I am 403lbs, and while I want to lose weight for my health, I never want to be SKINNY!

My husband loves me the way I am and makes me feel like the sexiest woman in the world. Maybe because he's a chubby chaser, or maybe because I project that outward. I feel I am sexy for who I am, not how many pounds I am.

I totally understand how you feel about society attacks us for being big, but in the end it is you who decides this, not them.

Just a thought.

[greedyvw]

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i cant really say that theres anything about skinny people that make me angry lol, but i can say that i want to lose weight bcuz i'm tired of bein everyones fat friend. i feel "sexier" every day even tho i'm still nothing to look at. i feel sexier cuz i know that i'm getting smaller every day. i do have to agree that sexy is more than just looks, it a combo of looks, personality, humor and a ton of other characteristics. i know i have the personality and humor so now i chasin down the looks aspect off it

[Mommy2LittleMissBellaBre]

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Ok lol well i was mostly being sarcastic.. it was more of why do you wanna lose the weight and your inspiration but ok .. lol I feel sexy everyday i just wanna feel more comfortable.. but im sorry people are taking this more of i hate skinny people i dont! it was just me being sarcastic! sorry if i offended anyone

[greedyvw]

Re: What makes you mad about thinner people? and whats your insipration!

its quite alrite to "dislike" skinny people....specially the ones i work with who get a biga$$ cheeseburger w/ bun, a plate of french fries and a bowl of ketchup to dip em in everyday for lunch and dont gain a pound! all the while i'm sitting across from them weighing the lettuce that came with my salad so that i don't go over my daily carb intake! jeesh who ever said all men (and women) were created equal???

[SkinnyGirlInTransit]

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Skinny ppl can be very frustrating! I completely sympathize with the 'pretty face' comment, I can say I'm officially sick of that comment! LOL

That being said, my fiancé is thin, and eats whatever and whenever he pleases. BUT, he works out an extraordinary amount. He plays very competitive tennis 5x/week for 2 hours and additional strength training. If he didn't, would he be thin? Not likely.

Thank goodness for atkins though. Gotta love ketosis!!

[focus83]

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I dont hate skinny for being skinny, i hate CERTAIN skinny people who judge others because of their size when they dont know a thing about them. For example they see this person who is overweight and laughs at them and makes fun of them saying they are greedy and lazy etc. Because they are skinny they think they are better. I hate those kind of people.

[Eighties]

Re: What makes you mad about thinner people? and whats your insipration!

I dont hate skinny for being skinny, i hate CERTAIN skinny people who judge others because of their size when they dont know a thing about them. For example they see this person who is overweight and laughs at them and makes fun of them saying they are greedy and lazy etc. Because they are skinny they think they are better. I hate those kind of people.

+1

[liv]

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Some skinny people in my life talk about food constantly - recipes, restaurants, dinners etc etc. But do they ever eat any of this stuff? No - when it comes down to actually being faced with the food they are like little picky birds. This irritate me because I can really eat. (Now that is probably my problem )
I am hoping I can be a little more like them and show some portion control so I do not have to feel bad just because there is food in front of me.

[chinadoll]

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Now is the time to take that irritation and turn it into energy. I try to use it to motivate me for workouts. Kind of an "I'll show those bikini wearing babes that I can do this..."

Actually, the anger is usually directed at other irritants in my life LOL, but hey take that energy wherever you can get it. I have my best cardio workouts when I am totally ticked off.

[MrsChesterDogg]

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The "you have such a pretty face" always got me. I have a much loved aunt who at the time was also quite plus sized to say this to me...."you have such a pretty face, if you'd lose about 50 lbs you could have any man you wanted". I had no response at the time because I was much younger and had not backbone.
These days I get NO open disrespect from people about my size. I think it's because I carry myself with an air of , what's the word, as if I have some respect for myself, and I do. I would in no way tolerate someone being ugly to me now about my size!!
So hold your head up high carry yourself as if you were a Queen. Don't take crap from people who think it's ok to harrass the "fat girl"! Just stay on your path to a more healthy and slim you and sooner than you think you will be there.

[Mommy2LittleMissBellaBre]

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Well im glad im not the only one who puts all that anger into a workout!!.. i should post pictures of my sister in a bikini everywhere in my kichen and onmy t.v to motivate me more lol!

[keriann_forgoodthistime]

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I totally understand allll those feelings...but for me - one thing I've learned, "skinny" does NOT equal healthy!!!! I know "skinny" people who are SO incredibly unhealthy it's not even funny (plus skinny also doesn't always mean "nicer" nor does it mean SANE!!!! lol). I've known a LOT of skinny people on anti-depressents because they can't handle real life...I've also known a LOT of skinny people who'd rather do drugs to escape their real life...no matter how fat I got I never went down THAT road...

But aside from that - I must agree that while I KNOW they're not "healthier" it is VERY irritating to see skinny girls with burgers (with buns, lol), fries & a shake every day at lunch and NEVER gain anything...or pizza or pasta - ya'll know. it does suck just cuz even though they're NOT healthier, they ARE still skinnier than me...cuz unfortunately people don't SEE "healthy" they see fat or skinny.

Luckily I'm married to the most wonderful man in the universe and loved me even at my fattest...BUT that being said - I know that when I was single - it was a daily battle within myself to go out with my "skinny" friends who'd ALWAYS get hit on and I was that girl sitting by herself at the table - OR the one where the guys would look at my skinny friend and ask, "why is SHE here?"...or I'd just be completely and utterly ignored like I WASN'T there...(not joking, i'm sure you've all been there).

oh well - that was a past life. i am that fat chick no more!

[ttdriver]

Re: What makes you mad about thinner people? and whats your insipration!

Now is the time to take that irritation and turn it into energy. I try to use it to motivate me for workouts. Kind of an "I'll show those bikini wearing babes that I can do this..."

Actually, the anger is usually directed at other irritants in my life LOL, but hey take that energy wherever you can get it. I have my best cardio workouts when I am totally ticked off.

Exactly! Me too!

Betty

[TitianWasp]

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I went from skinny, and everyone saw me, to big and pregnant, and everyone saw me, to not being pregnant, but still being big, and no one saw me any more (children and husband not included). As soon as I was no longer pregnant, but still big I became instantaneously invisible and it was horrifying...did I even exist any more except as someone's mother? There's irony in the fact that the larger you get, the more invisible you become.