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  • FOR ALL THE SLOW LOSERS OUT THERE…Look what I found!

    I am metabolically slooooooow. Or at least I have been up until now. We’re talking 27 days and 4 pounds on Atkins as of 3 days ago. If this sounds familiar, read on, because I finally realized what a gift this is and how my reaction to it (the slow speed) helped to correct it!

    Here’s what happened:

    After feeling a bit hopeless now and then, I made sure there wasn’t some hidden, lingering problem somewhere.

    -I took my temperature 3 x a day for 4 days to make sure I wasn’t low thyroid.
    -I went over my diet with a fine tooth comb for hidden cards and ‘illegal’ foods.
    - I found a new way to make sure I was getting enough water.
    -I made sure I was taking my supplements.
    -I put the scale away for at least 1 week.
    -I measured myself again to check on any movement

    Then, I

    - I stopped carrying any anxiety about all this. I focused on how good I feel and how healthy I am getting. I focused on how great it is to be slimmer and trimmer. I celebrated the 4 pounds and 4 ½ inches I had already lost. I focused on how exciting this process is, how life altering, how wonderful it is to know that I can change my body. Bodies are living, flexible things; I can change my outside to match how I feel inside! Wow! That is so cool. I imagined buying new clothes, moving easily and gracefully, catching glimpses of my new body in store windows and random mirrors.

    -I focused on finding what my body likes. How long have I ignored what my body really likes? Now I listen to my body. It likes salad and responds well to that. It likes walking to music. It likes weight lifting (heavy weight, low reps). It likes relaxing sometimes. It likes being in nature regularly. It likes deep, warm baths and great big hugs from people I love. Then I gave it these things because I quite like my body!

    -I started to give my body some respect and care. I stopped expecting it to do all manner of splendiferous things without any support from me. I stopped insisting that it jump to my every whim just because I think it should, despite years of neglect and abuse. I finally began to pay attention and give my body the things it needs to be strong and healthy. Most of all, I started to be patient while it goes through the enormous changes I have begun to ask of it.

    And do you know what? I lost another 4 pounds in the last few days! It took a month to figure this out, but it is responding now. And here’s the kicker:

    Had I lost the weight as quickly as the last time, I would not have learned this. I would still be demanding, neglecting and disrespectful to my body.

    That, in my books, is a tremendous gift.

    So, for all those slow losers: rejoice! You are learning wonderful lessons of patience and respect; these are healthy attitudes that will last your entire life. What a fabulous gift!

    Cheers!
    BeeDee

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    Re: FOR ALL THE SLOW LOSERS OUT THERE…Look what I found!

    Awesome!

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    • #3
      Re: FOR ALL THE SLOW LOSERS OUT THERE…Look what I found!

      Originally posted by beedee View Post
      i stopped carrying any anxiety about all this. I focused on how good i feel and how healthy i am getting.
      What I do:
      Elliptical gym machine 1 hr Tue-Sun
      At 320, switch to cycling on my Trek 500
      2 filtered containers water/day
      Daily salads/veggies


      Goals:

      Stop needing High Blood Pressure meds - DONE!
      Workout in a XXXL shirt
      - DONE!
      Workout in a XXL shirt
      Workout in a XL shirt
      270 on the scales

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      • #4
        Re: FOR ALL THE SLOW LOSERS OUT THERE…Look what I found!

        What a great reminder....you and I are both on the sloooooooooow loss train, but you have raised some wonderful positives to focus on!
        Thanks for perspective!
        Kristen


        F
        Started 1-4-2004
        156/132.4/120 Height 5'6"

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        • #5
          Re: FOR ALL THE SLOW LOSERS OUT THERE…Look what I found!

          Excellent post BeeDee. You are lucky to have realized these things as many people don't & thus they don't succeed! It's all about the process~physical, emotional & spiritual!
          "You always had it. You always had the power."~~ Glinda the Good Witch

          Glenda
          F/5'10/47
          261/xxx/???
          "Happiness is a habit~cultivate it." Elbert Hubbard
          "Insanity is doing the same thing over and over again, but expecting different results." Albert Einstein

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          • #6
            Re: FOR ALL THE SLOW LOSERS OUT THERE…Look what I found!

            Thanks so much for that post. I've been feeling sorry for myself because I only lost 5 pounds a month for the last couple of months while my husband has been losing 15 pounds a month (darn men).
            My doctor told me to stop having intimate dinners for four. Unless there are three other people.
            ~Orson Welles




            Everytime I am tempted to use food to satisfy my frustrated desires, build up my injured ego, or dull my senses, I will remember,
            That even though I overeat in private, my excess poundage is there for all the world to see.
            ------------------------------------------------------------

            "Eating like most people won't, so I can look like most people don't."

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            • #7
              Re: FOR ALL THE SLOW LOSERS OUT THERE…Look what I found!

              Great post.
              Thanks for the reminder to hang in there and count the blessings.
              Startdate: November 18, 2007. Female 5'2"

              May Challenges 2010
              Push-ups: 450/800
              Abs: 850/1900
              Squats: 650/1200
              Lunges: 500/1000
              Strength: 490/1200
              Running: 50/100 km


              2 Years on Atkins.................. President Challenge Medals earned

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              • #8
                Re: FOR ALL THE SLOW LOSERS OUT THERE…Look what I found!

                UAU!!! that post was as if for me....thank you so much and God Bless
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                • #9
                  Re: FOR ALL THE SLOW LOSERS OUT THERE…Look what I found!

                  Great post BeeDee! So many newbies think the weight is just going to fall off but many of us are on the slow track. I find if I listen really well, my body tells me not only what it needs to do, but also what it needs nutritionally. The key is to listen to the body, not the appetite. LOL Now my cravings are for tuna or mushrooms or all sorts of things that I never would have thought of in my carb life.
                  JILL

                  HW 298
                  HW (this time) 248
                  GOAL ONE 228
                  (take 2)
                  GOAL TWO 213 (personal goal)
                  GOAL THREE 199 ONE-DERLAND
                  FINAL GOAL 165

                  It's not about the results. Its about the process.

                  "I've never come home after a workout and said, MAN, I wish I had NOT exercised today!"



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                  • #10
                    Re: FOR ALL THE SLOW LOSERS OUT THERE…Look what I found!

                    That is so true, all of it, I haven't really cared about the weight loss either, have so much energy don't know what to do with myself. Confidence is up as well, just knowing you are doing something special for yourself means alot.




                    Started this diet on Sun 4/26/09

                    50 lbs gone on Sun 9/27/09

                    Well its been over a year now and I am currently on maintenance and still trying to adjust to the "new" ME. No major struggles to report, just livin' day to day.

                    What worked for me...http://www.atkinsdietbulletinboard.c...y-success.html

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                    • #11
                      Re: FOR ALL THE SLOW LOSERS OUT THERE…Look what I found!

                      Thank you for that wonderful post. I had been feeling a bit down because I wasn't loosing as fast as I'd like to. I was expecting my body to do those splendifourous things that you described. Even though I had been neglecting it and doing what the diet dictocrats told me to. So I'm going to take your suggestions.





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                      • #12
                        Re: FOR ALL THE SLOW LOSERS OUT THERE…Look what I found!

                        excellent post, thanks
                        m/42 5'7"
                        No mini goals, just want to finish the race one pound at a time

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                        • #13
                          Re: FOR ALL THE SLOW LOSERS OUT THERE…Look what I found!

                          Thanks, I needed that! I've also been feeling down about losing slow.
                          Stats: 5'4" | HW: 218.5 | CW: 175 | GW: 170


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                          • #14
                            Re: FOR ALL THE SLOW LOSERS OUT THERE…Look what I found!

                            BeeDee -- that post was totally AWESOME!

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                            • #15
                              Re: FOR ALL THE SLOW LOSERS OUT THERE…Look what I found!

                              What an incredible inspiration you are! I thank you so much for sharing this experience with the rest of us.

                              Godspeed.

                              Shelley
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                              HW: 356
                              SW: 334.9
                              CW: 280
                              GW: 150

                              Mini goals:
                              1: Under 300 lbs by 10/31/09 MET!!
                              2: At/under 265 by mom's 84th b-day 3/26/10
                              3: At/under 225 by 11th wedding anniv. 8/14/10
                              4: At/under 195 by Christmas 2010
                              5: At/under 160 by mom's 85th b-day 3/26/11

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