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  • Goals Post. Accountability. Something I need to do for me!

    It's one of those things that tend to help keep me on the straight and narrow. Indulge me, please! Thanks!

    Goals Post

    -Have you made the decision to change?
    *YES!!

    -What are your reasons for making the decision to change?
    *Control
    *Comfort
    *Confidence
    *Health

    -When you look at yourself, do you honestly like what you see?
    *In a word- No.

    -How do you really feel about yourself?
    *Depends on the day, but I'm generally ashamed of how little control I have over some of my obsessive/compulsive behaviors lately.

    -Are you confident, energetic, and strong?
    *No, no, and no.

    -Do you often wonder if you're on the right path?
    *No. I know the answer is that I'm not. Here I am, again, starting from scratch.

    -What are the pros & cons of continuing in the direction you're going?

    Pros
    Eat what I want when I want.
    Sloth time.
    Comfortable discomfort.

    Cons

    Binge/Purge perpetuates
    Fat.
    Weak.
    Lack of confidence.
    Frustration.
    Anger.
    Fear.
    Discomfort
    Unhealthy.

    -Would you like to create a brighter future?
    *What a dumbass question. Here I am, right?

    -What changes in your body and life do you wish you could create in the next 12 weeks?
    1. Control the food.
    2. Lose 20lbs.
    3. Gain strength & flexibility.
    4. Be more proactive.
    5. More meditation type activity for peace of mind.

    -Turn these into positive, specific statements.
    1. I will follow a clean Atkins approach.
    2. I will remove 20lbs.
    3. I will gain strength & flexibility.
    4. I will spend more time doing and less time planning.
    5. I will take time for meditation and prayer.

    -Again
    1. For the next twelve weeks I will follow a strict, progressive Atkins approach. I will not cheat, nor will I binge & purge.
    2. In the next twelve weeks, I will do everything in my power to come as close to removing 20lbs of fat from my body as possible.
    3. In the next twelve weeks, I will work out a minimum of 5 times a week to gain strength and flexibility
    4. For the next twelve weeks, I will be more proactive in my personal and professional life. I will spend more time doing and less time contemplating and over-thinking.
    5. For the next twelve weeks, I will take and make time for daily meditation and prayer.

    -Which four patterns of action might prevent you from reaching your goals?
    1. Allowing my anger and fear to be an excuse for self sabotage & self destructive behaviors.
    2. Pure avoidance.
    3. Making small concessions in activity/eating. All of those things add up and count!
    4. Not enough sleep.

    -Which four new patters do you need to establish to reach your goals?
    1. Make healthy choices when angry/fearful: exercise, write, pray, meditate.
    2. To-do lists and organize!
    3. "To thine own self, be true." No excuses.
    4. Get more sleep!!


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    Re: Goals Post. Accountability. Something I need to do for me!

    Such a good way to keep yourself in perspective. I feel pretty much the same way you do. Good luck and stay positive, you will prevail!
    Carrie

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      Re: Goals Post. Accountability. Something I need to do for me!

      Hi Brook,

      Welcome back Good luck with your aims- great way to be positive and set some specific goals.

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      • #4
        Re: Goals Post. Accountability. Something I need to do for me!

        This is actually the Body For Life's (Bill Phillips) goal setting strategy. It's what I've used for 7 years, and it does the trick every time for me.

        It's not about achieving a specific goal number, it's about identifying a clear cut path to get where I'm going and the patterns that got me back here again to begin with.

        Posting it here is about accountability. I need accountability.

        My Melting Page: A Picture Diary and Misc Other Stuff


        Highest Weight: 243lbs

        Atkineer since May 2002!!

        *****************************************


        General rule of thumb for success: If it requires a degree in chemical engineering to pronounce it, you probably shouldn't eat it.

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