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    So darn Sad :(

    Wow I am so sad right now, I lost a good friend today because he wanted more but even though the hubby treats me like crap and soon I will be divorcing.. I am not going to do something outside of marriage..he can't be my friend now that I know his feelings ( that's what he said) I feel so horrible..I am going to miss my friend, he has been nice to me when my husband has not. I wanted to run and grab some comfort food for sure but instead went and sat on the bike and peddle until my frustration was away..Life sucks sometimes..I just wanted to vent ( thank you)
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    Re: So darn Sad

    I know what you mean. It has been a sad (but frustrating) day for me also! Way to go for getting on the bike instead of eating something you wasn't suppose to. I hope tomorrow will be better.


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    • #3
      Re: So darn Sad

      Im so glad to hear that you didn't give in and eat something horrible. Believe me I have been going through some stressful issues lately and I have on some days given and and just ate anything i could find in the house and it felt horrible after so good for you for being strong! Keep your head up and keep thinking of your goals!
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        Re: So darn Sad

        I can really empathize w/ your sadness BUT... I'M SO IMPRESSED W/ YOUR INTEGRITY AND PERSERVERENCE! You know that you did the right thing ... regarding your friend aand regarding your food/activity choices ...WTG!!! It seems like you are really proving your strenght of charachter in the face of a difficult test ... you really ROCK girl! May you go from strength to strength!!!
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          congrats for getting thru a difficult situation in a successful way. I'm so sorry to hear that you are not treated well by your husband and that you lost a friend; but am impressed with your integrity.

          I'm hoping you can get thru this divorce and to a more positive place soon.

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            Re: So darn Sad

            If he was truly your friend he will be patient. Right now he is hurting and saying things from a hurting place. If you do leave your marriage, He may be there for you again and he may even appreciate your integrity more knowing that your word is your bond.You overcame a tremendously difficult moment today. Continue to take care of you.
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            • #7
              Re: So darn Sad

              It was working through the aftermath of a divorce that I started doing Atkins successfully. Somehow suddenly freed from feeling like I had to do my 100% all to please a man who was eternally miserable, I could then concentrate on taking care of myself. It took a while, though...

              Bravo to you for jumping on the bike instead of diving into the fridge. I don't know that I would have had such strength. You're an inspiration to me! *hugs*
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                • #9
                  Re: So darn Sad

                  Thanks everybody, the bike thing actually help me feel better if I would have stuffed my face I would have felt worst and gained weight! but I still feel crappy Time will tell..first I need to getting my business better and divorce. Then continue to work on me..I can't love anybody until I love myself first and I am learning that now..of course I love my children but that love comes no matter what thanks everybody!
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                  I started atkins in late november but every other week just sort of fell off the wagon and was not working out..late december I started to really follow it and added the gym from november to december I only lost like 7 lbs not following it right..from december to march 18 I lost 50 lbs give or take depending what mood my scale is on lol.

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                  • #10
                    Re: So darn Sad

                    Originally posted by Summerdressgirl View Post
                    I can't love anybody until I love myself first...
                    Absolutely, 100% true! I'm sorry you lost your friend, but you know what? Once you can achieve the perspective of a person who completely loves herself and respects herself, you'll see that things will always work out for the best when you stay true to yourself! Don't ever feel bad for putting your needs first. (Yeah, I know, we mommies put our children's needs first...but other adults should just take a number and line up behind us!)
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