Size 8,
Ack! Please don't think you are the only one who has been blindsided by that pregnant thing. Oh, when it happened to me (bout 3 times), I felt like someone socked me in the stomache.
People can be so shallow and so unthinkingly cruel. I cannot begin to tell you how much I wish I would have found one of thier superificial flaws and had a snappy comeback. Like "oh, I wonder why it is always flatchested women who say that?" or , "At least I am losing weight, but you will look like that forever!"
Oh, I know that is awful, and very unchristlike. It is even shallow as I would love to be flatchested LOL.. But it does hurt, and I will pray that you don't have to go through it.
Prob. the best thing to say would be something like, Yeah, my weight has gotten out of control, but I have lost ## pounds in the last month & It should all be off by Christmas! I dunno hun... I will just hope that there are no jerks out there.
Now, on the other hand... I gained weight after the whole pregnant comments & then they knew I was just Fat. LOL. I think I'm moving back into the pregnant look soon. Bahahahahaha! I am actually looking forward to it hehehehe.
Always remember, you are heading toward your goal. You are doing very well, and you will make it. If someone says something , you can go back next year & blow them away w. how great you look! :icondance :icondance
Be thinkin' aboutcha!
Ack! Please don't think you are the only one who has been blindsided by that pregnant thing. Oh, when it happened to me (bout 3 times), I felt like someone socked me in the stomache.
People can be so shallow and so unthinkingly cruel. I cannot begin to tell you how much I wish I would have found one of thier superificial flaws and had a snappy comeback. Like "oh, I wonder why it is always flatchested women who say that?" or , "At least I am losing weight, but you will look like that forever!"
Oh, I know that is awful, and very unchristlike. It is even shallow as I would love to be flatchested LOL.. But it does hurt, and I will pray that you don't have to go through it.
Prob. the best thing to say would be something like, Yeah, my weight has gotten out of control, but I have lost ## pounds in the last month & It should all be off by Christmas! I dunno hun... I will just hope that there are no jerks out there.
Now, on the other hand... I gained weight after the whole pregnant comments & then they knew I was just Fat. LOL. I think I'm moving back into the pregnant look soon. Bahahahahaha! I am actually looking forward to it hehehehe.
Always remember, you are heading toward your goal. You are doing very well, and you will make it. If someone says something , you can go back next year & blow them away w. how great you look! :icondance :icondance
Be thinkin' aboutcha!












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