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    My boss had an interesting experience this weekend. She went on a scenic railway tour. It was a package tour that included bus transportation to and from the railway, a box lunch in a dining car and unlimited access to the concession car (ie: you could get what you wanted and as much as you wanted). Basically, you boarded this train and went on a 3 hour tour through mountains and a river gorge. After the lunch, you could get up walk through the train to the observation cars, enjoy the ride and nature.

    Anyhow, boss said she was stuck at the same table with part of a miserable family. So as soon as they sit at the table, one woman begins complaining about the bus ride to the train (it was 2 hours), about the train itself (it was an older train from the 1940s that had been restored), and about the box lunch. Apparently, it was a turkey and cheese sandwich, a fruit salad, a pasta salad, crackers and cheese, and apple pie and soda or water. I know, you all are thinking "Well, maybe she was on Atkins or some other diet and she couldn’t eat that lunch". According to boss, you could indicate that you had dietary restrictions on the registration form and you had the option of bringing snacks of your liking. This woman was upset because she was expecting something 'more' for lunch, not the "box lunch" that was part of the travel package. The tour coordinator heard her complaints and politely told her that since she didn’t like the meal, the concession car would be open soon. And that was followed by the woman complaining about the tour coordinator having the nerve to tell her that.

    Anyhow, boss said throughout the entire lunch, the woman sat there and complained about the train, the food, the entire concept of the train trip. Okay, you’re probably saying, why the heck did she go? Her mother signed her and her sister up for the trip as a "mother-daughters" type activity. Boss said that the poor mother just sat there trying to put on a pleasant face while her daughter complained and behaved childishly: looking at her watch and saying "I got 2 ½ hours left of this s***!", commenting "I can’t believe people would actually like this s***!", telling her mother "I don’t know why I let you talk me into this!" The woman finally got up to use the toilet and the mother said "I knew I shouldn’t have brought her along."

    Boss said she spent most of her time in the observation car. But once or twice she came back to the dining car to get something to drink or a snack. Each time she came back, the woman was there scowling at everyone who looked like they were enjoying the ride and the mother looked like she was about to burst into tears.

    So on the ride back home, the bus stopped at a McDonalds. The woman got off and got food. When she got her food, she tells her mother "This is unreal. I traveled over 100 miles today for f****** McDonalds!"

    I can’t imagine any adult acting like that. Okay, so you might not like it, but if your mom brought you on a trip because she thought it would be a nice family-type trip, at least you could be more pleasant about it and try to enjoy it for her sake. I guess it takes something big to happen before you realize that the people in your life might not always be there and you need to spend time with them now.



    ~Megs~
    242/141/160 (130)
    dress size 26/10/8
    5'4", Female, May 2, 2003
    My blog:
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    Re: Im glad I wasn't there!

    Wow! And how about your boss and all the other passengers who paid their money and had their enjoyment curtailed by this woman's negative attitude. That's too bad. I'm glad I wasn't there too. I prolly woulda smacked her. Well.....I would have been tempted to.
    Female, 46yrs, 5'3"

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    • #3
      Re: Im glad I wasn't there!

      Yeah- I have a real bad habit of telling people what I think of them. I know me and I don't think I would have sat there without saying something. Sometimes it gets me into trouble but I always feel better afterwards. It's amazing that people can't stop and think about what they look like when they do stuff like that. I've always wanted to videotape people like that and play it back to them. I'm sure some people wouldn't care but I have to believe others would be in shock when they saw themselves. You have to wonder though, did the mom give this daughter everything she wanted growing up and is that why she was acting like that?
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      If we all did the things we are capable of,
      we would astound ourselves.
      Thomas Edison

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      • #4
        Re: Im glad I wasn't there!

        LiR, ghelen, I have a big mouth too. I probably would have said something.
        ~Megs~
        242/141/160 (130)
        dress size 26/10/8
        5'4", Female, May 2, 2003
        My blog:
        http://mformiscellaneous.blogspot.com/

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        • #5
          Re: Im glad I wasn't there!

          Count me in the "I would have said something" group. There is NO reason for a grown woman to act like a child. Thats disgusting.
          Female, 30 , 5'9
          234/182.0/not shopping in the fat girl store.
          start 1/9/06 (down 49.5inches as of 7/7/06)
          10/03/06- Im in a size 14 jean!!!!
          (Modified OWL-moving up rungs for convenience when travelling, keeping carbs moderate)
          Foods I cannot have-
          Black beans.- instant headache and upset belly.
          spaghetti squash mixed with tomatoes- ravenous


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          • #6
            Re: Im glad I wasn't there!

            What a rotten B! Too bad there wasn't someone rude enough to give her a taste of her own medicine by shouting to her "shut the F up!"

            I know, I shouldn't think things like that, but she was mean to everyone and her own mother!
            ~Lisa
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            Low-carb RULES, and low-calorie drools.
            194/165.6/140
            5'2"
            Mini-goal #3: get below 160 pounds.
            Mini-goal #2: get below 170 pounds. -- met March 18!
            Mini-goal #1 (get below 180 pounds) -- met Dec. 8!
            on my way!

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            • #7
              Re: Im glad I wasn't there!

              I probably wouldn't have the nerve to say something to her, though I might actually tell the mother i was going to the observation car and say something like 'i hear it's really nice you should take a walk over there' hoping the misreable daughter would stay behind, at least givine her mother some peace for a bit. I have a cousin who is very much like this..just completely misreable and full of hate and can never look past things. she's over 50 so I doubt she'll never change.


              I've always wanted to videotape people like that and play it back to them. I'm sure some people wouldn't care but I have to believe others would be in shock when they saw themselves.
              o/t Have you ever seen the show 'Airline' on A&E? I get alot of satisfaction knowing that some of those jerks that scream and berate those airline employees for things completely out of their control (like the weather), will see themselves on TV and hopefully realize what an idiot they were.
              Jen, 39, F
              In maintenance



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              • #8
                Re: Im glad I wasn't there!

                That's a thought Jen...rather than telling the daughter off, you steer the mom to a nice place or "Adopt" her for a few minutes by letting her tag along with you.
                ~Megs~
                242/141/160 (130)
                dress size 26/10/8
                5'4", Female, May 2, 2003
                My blog:
                http://mformiscellaneous.blogspot.com/

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                • #9
                  Re: Im glad I wasn't there!

                  Our family live by the rule "you only get one Mum and Dad in life - respect and treat them with love every hour of every day"

                  I would never speak to my parents like that ever!! Some people dont realise how lucky they are to have a Mum and Dad!! I'm fortunate, I have both parents, but some people aren't so lucky.

                  Maybe someone, some day will remind this person of that!!

                  jane x
                  5ft 4 / female - age 36 start date - 20th March 2006 -restarted 8th August 2006 sw188/cw150/gw147

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                  • #10
                    Re: Im glad I wasn't there!

                    Someone should have locked her in the toilet when she went.
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