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  • #16
    Re: In Memory of My Best Friend ...

    At this point everything is kind of jumbled around in my head, and I am remembering all the things about him over the years that made him special to me ...

    When I was young I had a 1970 Mustang ... he loved to take rids in it! The passenger side door of that car had scratches all over the outside from him hanging his paws out. I would have to hold him back on turns fearing he would fall out of the window! He was so protective of that car too! He was a really cute dog especially when he was young. His tail curled up and he was nice and fluffy. One time I pulled up to the grocery store I worked at in high school. One of the ladies came out and started to fawn over him asking if she could pet him. Of course I said sure, knowing full well when she got within 5 feet of that car he would start barking ... and he did ... and she jumped 10 feet back.

    He was always excited when someone would come home, needed your attention immediately. Well when he was younger he would come up to then take off running through the house, doing figure 8s around the foyer, living room, kitchen ... all hardwood floors. Real fun when he would stop ... slide =)

    Of course he loved to play ... loved to play fetch, his style of course, had to wrestle the ball or toy away from him. He LOVED football. We had a few different ones we played with over the years. Every September when football would start on TV he would go outside and find his football .... you'd look over at the door and there he is standing there with it waiting for you =)

    He loved to show off for people. When someone would come over he would find some toy or rawhide bone and run around with it. Throw it up in the air and catch it, swing his head around w/ it in his mouth, etc. If you praised him enough he would stop.

    He liked to watch animals on TV, hated flashlights, ate his dinner slower than any dog I have ever seen. We would mix dry and canned food for him - he would lick his way around and get all the canned food out and leave the dry. Of course he loved to take walks, chasing squirrels and birds. He would sneak up and nip at the butt of any girl I ever brought home, until I met my wife. A fried of mine wrote to me "you can rest assured he bit St. Pete's *** as he went through the pearly gates". He wasn't crazy about kids, but he loved mine. Was gentle and obedient to them.

    There are so many more, but this gives you an idea.
    Lee

    Male, 5'9", 31
    Restart date 2/06/07
    SW - 260.4 / CW - 247.2 / GW - 190

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    • #17
      Re: In Memory of My Best Friend ...

      Oh, he sounded like a real ham! Thank you for sharing them!!!!
      ~Joy

      Start 1/2/06 Goal 6/11/07 restart 1/2/09
      268.5/196/185
      QUIT SMOKING JULY 23, 2006 while on Atkins


      Just when you think you've eaten enough vegetables...EAT SOME MORE!
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      • #18
        Re: In Memory of My Best Friend ...

        I'm crying for you, Proudest Monkey, because it is a heart-wrenching thing to face the choice of losing a loved one versus watching the loved one suffer. It hurts terribly now to have made the choice that in the long run will hurt less.


        My DB has an aged dog that cannot stand without help, and all it does is scoot in circles on his pillow to reach food or water, it cannot bark, scratch or even wag its tail, and has multiple tumors, yet DB won't put him down. It hurts me to see this dog every time I see it.

        I had a cat with feline leukaemia that got an abcess that wouldn't heal, and held it as it was euthanesthized. That still brings tears to think about, but the creature is in a better place instead of suffering.

        Know that you dog would thank you if it could for your kindness and mercy.
        ~Susan
        49/f 5'7" Start 2-27-06 SW222/11-18-09 @ 160-ish/G135-150ish??

        Doin Miles, Flights, & Kid Ketchin'...
        2 Ab Chal's; 6WEC#27 slug-Free; & more; 50# LOST in'06-
        but regained ~20# in '07 in less than 3 weeks! And again early '08 ...Was in HEAVEN -got to 150, for awhile, then got too busy, and gave in too much... and... OK holding pattern "keep it together..."

        .................OMG how did I fail AGAIN
        (((on temporary break)))
        Sigh ... I'll be back... life isn't always fair 10-07-09

        "Goal: First you have to dream of it. Then you have to do it." Author unknown

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        • #19
          Re: In Memory of My Best Friend ...

          I felt bad for the staff during this. It looked as if they were trying not to join in our tears. Me and my oldest daughter standing there crying, holding him my head buried into his as he slipped away ... I was told that when he was there the day before and the vet said that he should be put to sleep that some of the staff did cry.

          Originally posted by bradybunch
          I feel your pain Lee, I had to put one down in November. One of the hardest days of my life. The vet patted me on the back while i was crying and told me i had done the right thing. I have only cried three times in my life since being grown and that day in November was one of them. i would give you a pat on the back if i could.
          Lee

          Male, 5'9", 31
          Restart date 2/06/07
          SW - 260.4 / CW - 247.2 / GW - 190

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          • #20
            Re: In Memory of My Best Friend ...

            Thank you all again, Cocobelle, Stacy, Frech, Kristi, Joy and Lady Hawke (thanks for the push in sharing memories - it helped a lot to post all that), biogeek (it does feel like there is a huge whole in my soul), Jane, dreamof145 (you will know when it is time, until then enjoy every moment!), Sally (that is part of what has been tearing me up, that I did break that trust to always be there for him), Jen, Susan, Brady ... I appreciate all your thoughts and support.

            I've been looking through all the pictures we took the last couple of days, and one from yesterday I could see it in his eyes. It wasn't a life he wanted anymore ... not able to stand on his own anymore ... not for a dog that even this past summer would still play a round of fetch with me ... it just happened so quick (to me at least). Sunday he was fine. Monday he started needing help getting up ... but thinking back I can see that this had been developing for the past 6 months.

            Thanks again. My wife is off to pick up his ashes ... soon he will be home with us again.
            Lee

            Male, 5'9", 31
            Restart date 2/06/07
            SW - 260.4 / CW - 247.2 / GW - 190

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            • #21
              Re: In Memory of My Best Friend ...

              Our last picture together - taken yesterday morning before we left ...

              Lee

              Male, 5'9", 31
              Restart date 2/06/07
              SW - 260.4 / CW - 247.2 / GW - 190

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              • #22
                Re: In Memory of My Best Friend ...

                He was a very handsome dog! Looks alot like the dog I spent my late teenage and 20's years loving.
                ~Joy

                Start 1/2/06 Goal 6/11/07 restart 1/2/09
                268.5/196/185
                QUIT SMOKING JULY 23, 2006 while on Atkins


                Just when you think you've eaten enough vegetables...EAT SOME MORE!
                http://www.fitday.com/WebFit/PublicJournals.html?Owner=ride2joy

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                • #23
                  Re: In Memory of My Best Friend ...

                  Lee

                  My little baby is 12 and a half - and I dread taking her to the vets!! but when you hear of dogs living until they're 14, 15, 16 it really makes me smile.

                  your last picture of him put tears in my eyes, and your memories of him did the same too.

                  Take care

                  jane xxx
                  5ft 4 / female - age 36 start date - 20th March 2006 -restarted 8th August 2006 sw188/cw150/gw147

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                  • #24
                    Re: In Memory of My Best Friend ...

                    Thanks for the picture Lee, he was a great looking pooch.
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                    GW 218
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                    • #25
                      Re: In Memory of My Best Friend ...

                      How handsome Marley was!!! Thank you for sharing your stories about him. You made me cry, but it's a good cry. I think most of us have lost beloved pets, so we can relate to your pain, but grief is different for each person. When the time is right, the tears will come less often and you will think back of how great a companion Marley was.
                      HW=250+/222/GW=175 37F/5'7
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