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    Hi,
    I'm a new fatty here but I'm in the 2nd time around category. I had already lost about 25 lbs on Atkins a few years ago but when my mother was diagnosed with terminal cancer, my eating habits went to heck for a few years and I ballooned up to 206 lbs, which is the heaviest that I've ever been. I've been lowcarbing now for just a few weeks and I can already feel the weight coming off. I probably won't weigh myself for a month or so though because I hate watching the scale and at this early stage of the game "how my clothing fits" is a good enough indicator for me.

    I LOVE Atkins diet because I'm a major carboholic and it's the only diet out there that completely kills my junk food cravings. I feel very motivated this time around and am really looking forward to buying some cute summer dresses that don't resemble shapeless sacks. My biggest problem is my best friend who is even more over weight than me. She has a terrible addiction to junk carbs and I sometimes feel that she purposely tries to tempt me into cheating because she doesn't want me leaving the "fat girl club" so to speak. She hates being over weight herself but refuses to do anything about it and thus continues to grow larger. I've tried to turn her onto Atkins in the past, but she says that she tried it once before and it made her feel lethargic and unhealthy so she won't try it again. My guess is that she wasn't eating enough veggies since she's the type of person who rarely even finishes a small dinner salad.

    I hate coming across as rude to her, but this time around I am really going to have to put my foot down with her when I feel that she is trying to sabotage my diet. Has anyone else out there ever experienced this problem with overweight friends and how did you deal with it?

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    Re: 2nd time around also

    I think weve all experienced it, its jealousy moer than anything, just stay strong to yourself and you shall succeed.

    I agree, if she was feeling like that she probably wasnt eating veggies or drinking water.

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    • #3
      Re: 2nd time around also

      Hi, Damaris


      Welcome to ADBB!

      I agree with Emma... I think this is a pretty common scenario. I am sure that she wasn't doing Atkins correctly. And if she was, perhaps she was having a case of Induction flu, and did not stick it out long enough to get past the detox from carbs. Just be true to yourself, and do your best.

      We have a special forum here at ADBB for second-timers. It is called STAC (Second Time Around Club), and there are SO many wonderful people there! I am a proud member, myself.

      Here is the link to get there. http://www.atkinsdietbulletinboard.c...splay.php?f=82

      Check it out! And, best wishes to you. You can do this!


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        Re: 2nd time around also

        Welcome Damaris! Nice to have you with us. Sounds like you're off to a good start... "how your clothing fits" is a wonderful indicator; much better than the scales!
        I agree, that your friend was almost certainly not doing Atkins correctly, or not willing to hang in there and get through the few days of induction flu. Such a pity. Don't let her derail you though.
        You never know... she might see the light and want to change the "fat girls club" into a "trimming down club". That would be great for both of you, as you'd have each other for support and inspiration.

        Happy losing!
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        • #5
          Re: 2nd time around also

          For me scales are too much of an emotional roller coaster... I get elated when I've lost but then depressed and defeated feeling when I haven't. I know that throughout my life the most successful diets I've experienced were the ones where I didn't step on the scale until I heard that first "wow, you've lost a lot of weight" from someone.

          BTW - Yesterday while running some errands I wore a fitted wool coat that had been getting kind of "tight in the upper sleeves". Well, it fit a lot better and I was even wearing a sweater underneath it!

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          • #6
            Re: 2nd time around also

            Welcome and congratulations on your success so far! I am a third timer myself. I guess it is true that the third time is the charm, because I finally got it right this time. This board really helped. You will find lots of support and great advice here.
            Don


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            • #7
              Re: 2nd time around also

              Too bad about your friend...but be a shining example to her. Continue to be strong & true to yourself. After a bit she'll get the message that you are commited to this way of eating/living.

              Take your measurements so you can keep track of the inches that you loose! Start a journal & join a challenge or two & check in often to get the support that you need!!

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