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GOT ANY kitchen bitchin to do?
Tiredofchub got me started on this in her Cinco De Mayo thread and since this week I seem to be on an endless tangent of bitchin about something I thought I would about something she said that sparked me...
Cooking for people you do not like...ARGH!!! That is hard especially when you put so much of yourself in your food!!! I like most everyone off hand there are only 3 people right now I can not stand .. 1. lives in Washington DC in a big white house and I do not ever have to worry about cooking for him 2. Was finally forced out of our clinic because seems I was not the only one who thought he was an atrocious human being and the 3rd I have to WORK WITH HER TODAY!
I remember taking wonderful dishes to potlucks and when I saw the guy I mentioned as being number 2 (oh yeah he was a big number 2 if you know what I mean) and then after tasted my food he would come and compliment me ...I wanted to puke .. I just could not stand the idea that something I put so much love and effort into ..he was enjoying...sorry this seems so weird but it is true!!!
So number 3 this woman I have to deal with on Saturdays ..lets just say she is Nurse Cratchet personafied...
she does not discriminate she is rude and offensive to everyone!!! Spreads mean gossip from clinic to clinic...she does not talk about people by who they are she defines them by race and what she knows about it...and btw that is everything about EVERY race..so when we have breakfast at work she always says..."I can not be bothered cooking for you I will bring Krispy Creme" knowing full well we are a small team and all of us try to eat very healthy...
I tried to give the MA's a break one busy day when I was sitting and doing nothing in urgent care ...she tossed a fit "since when do they get breaks we will see about that" ....there is something like this every week....and she is constantly writing everyone up for everything ...my boss ignores it but is not capable of changing her either...
that said.I found in the past when people were hard to work with if you sit down and eat in and off working situation it seems to smooth stuff over and you find some kind of fun in each other ......food is common bond or binding....so I tried to humanize her buy having a nurses lunch at my house....She stood there when we all gathered to choose a date and asked for directions...then on the day of the party she said "sorry I will take check since I was not personally invited" OMG since we gathered and planned it together I was not of the opinion she needed a special and personal invite and this was planned a month ahead and we had all been talking about it and the menu including her ...I did not want to cook for her anyway ..in the past when I brought food in for our Saturday shift she wrote me up for it being too strong with garlic smell or something else she could think of (my boss laughed asked why I never brought her food and tossed the emails) ....she is just a miserable unhappy and hard to be around person...and I really wanted to have this work out...but it didn't so oh well....
I am trying to find some medium here but it looks like since I have been offered the same day in my usual clinic I a not going to try so hard anymore..somethings have no resolve at all you know and I hate that ..I always can find a common ground to work with people and I take it so personally when I can't...that I need to feel it is ok that this woman is a bitchwoman and I have no control over her ..only my own behavior ...
Today I am gathering with my coworkers to plan a cooking fest for one of our PA's annual bbq's ..it is huge and over 100 people go every year it is a festival more than a BBQ...so we are going to gather and cook at my house and bring wonderful food....I am not even asking her this time ..I can't ..
your turn ....
Tiredofchub got me started on this in her Cinco De Mayo thread and since this week I seem to be on an endless tangent of bitchin about something I thought I would about something she said that sparked me...
Cooking for people you do not like...ARGH!!! That is hard especially when you put so much of yourself in your food!!! I like most everyone off hand there are only 3 people right now I can not stand .. 1. lives in Washington DC in a big white house and I do not ever have to worry about cooking for him 2. Was finally forced out of our clinic because seems I was not the only one who thought he was an atrocious human being and the 3rd I have to WORK WITH HER TODAY!
I remember taking wonderful dishes to potlucks and when I saw the guy I mentioned as being number 2 (oh yeah he was a big number 2 if you know what I mean) and then after tasted my food he would come and compliment me ...I wanted to puke .. I just could not stand the idea that something I put so much love and effort into ..he was enjoying...sorry this seems so weird but it is true!!!
So number 3 this woman I have to deal with on Saturdays ..lets just say she is Nurse Cratchet personafied...
she does not discriminate she is rude and offensive to everyone!!! Spreads mean gossip from clinic to clinic...she does not talk about people by who they are she defines them by race and what she knows about it...and btw that is everything about EVERY race..so when we have breakfast at work she always says..."I can not be bothered cooking for you I will bring Krispy Creme" knowing full well we are a small team and all of us try to eat very healthy...
I tried to give the MA's a break one busy day when I was sitting and doing nothing in urgent care ...she tossed a fit "since when do they get breaks we will see about that" ....there is something like this every week....and she is constantly writing everyone up for everything ...my boss ignores it but is not capable of changing her either...
that said.I found in the past when people were hard to work with if you sit down and eat in and off working situation it seems to smooth stuff over and you find some kind of fun in each other ......food is common bond or binding....so I tried to humanize her buy having a nurses lunch at my house....She stood there when we all gathered to choose a date and asked for directions...then on the day of the party she said "sorry I will take check since I was not personally invited" OMG since we gathered and planned it together I was not of the opinion she needed a special and personal invite and this was planned a month ahead and we had all been talking about it and the menu including her ...I did not want to cook for her anyway ..in the past when I brought food in for our Saturday shift she wrote me up for it being too strong with garlic smell or something else she could think of (my boss laughed asked why I never brought her food and tossed the emails) ....she is just a miserable unhappy and hard to be around person...and I really wanted to have this work out...but it didn't so oh well....
I am trying to find some medium here but it looks like since I have been offered the same day in my usual clinic I a not going to try so hard anymore..somethings have no resolve at all you know
and I hate that ..I always can find a common ground to work with people and I take it so personally when I can't...that I need to feel it is ok that this woman is a bitchwoman and I have no control over her ..only my own behavior ...Today I am gathering with my coworkers to plan a cooking fest for one of our PA's annual bbq's ..it is huge and over 100 people go every year it is a festival more than a BBQ...so we are going to gather and cook at my house and bring wonderful food....I am not even asking her this time ..I can't ..
your turn ....
, 5'9
He tells me, he doesn't miss food in general, but misses my cooking.. awww
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