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    I've heard a lot of negative things this week from people on reasons that they can't or struggle to make this WOE work for them. I talked with a friend last night and every time she told me why she couldn't do it....I'd respond with a positive comment. Soon, we were laughing and I thought I'd share this approach with you. It really helps to change your neg into pos thoughts.

    "My family doesn't want me to do Atkins - they think it is unhealthy"
    WRITE DOWN YOUR MENU AND ASK THEM WHAT FOODS THEY HAVE A PROBLEM WITH

    "It is raining outside so I can't go for a walk"
    WALK INDOORS or SUBSTITUDE WALKING WITH AN INDOOR EXERCISE FOR TODAY (using video or just dance or make up exercises to do)

    "I have a lot of meetings at work this week and we'll be eating out...so I can't do my WOE"
    Take your own lunches or choose and pick what is available off any menu. Tell the waitress you are restricted from some foods and most of them will gladly substitute items to keep you happy.

    "I have family coming to visit - so I can't fix Atkins friendly meals this weekend"
    ATKINS FRIENDLY meals are just meals. If your family eats meats, veggies and salad..they you don't have to go off your WOE. If they want bread or chips or whatever...that doesn't mean you have to eat it. Fix yourself some pepperoni chips or cheese chips so you don't feel deprived. Check out the recipe section to find moch potato salads or whatever else that you need to substitute for yourself. Chances are they will also eat and like what you've made.

    "My family likes to sit on Saturday nights and eat pizza and watch movies"
    The Atkins' friendly pizza with hamburger crust is delicious. It is low-carb and satisfies your craving for pizza.

    "I'm going to a family reunion and won't be able to eat Atkins this weekend.
    I'm sure your family reunion will include some meat, veggie or salad. If they are having pasta - then take a dish that you can eat. Take yourself serious. If you are diabetic or have allergies to certain foods, you wouldn't eat particular foods. Your weight loss plan is just as serious as any other medical condition that you have to plan around.

    There are many more obstacles that we come across that are convient for us to use as excuses to stop or jeopardize our way of eating. I think if we all mentally play this positive game in our minds and turn the neg thoughts into positive actions, we will find that nothing is more important or worth our health.

    Here's to a summer of Making it happen. WE can all do it!!!
    Starting Date 3/12/04 285/165/145 - F



    Dedication gives wings to our dreams and keeps them in flight! In One Word...COMMITTMENT.

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    Re: Positive mind game

    thanks for posting those.

    Another great one for any life event be it a party wedding soical outing for work whatever is Celebrate the friendship and love you share with your friends/family/coworkers neighbors and not the food served. Call your hosts to discuss the menu ofering to bring a large dish with enough to share of your Atkins friendly food or just bring your own.
    by the book atkinseer

    started 6/1/02 at 313
    goalie 5/04 at 167 with under 15% body fat ADBB Presidents exercise Challenge


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    • #3
      Re: Positive mind game

      Great post Becky. None of our excuses are valid, they are only that...excuses.
      Jim


      Yes I'm eating a smore in the picture, how do you think I got so fat?
      M/41/6'2"
      Original Start 348 6/14/04 Low 275.2 9/13/2005
      Restart 338.0 2/5/10 ---Current 325.0 2/22/10---Goal 210(195?)

      February miles run - 20
      "It's very hard in the beginning to understand that the whole idea is not to beat the other runners. Eventually you learn that the competition is against the little voice inside you that wants you to quit" - George Sheehan

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      • #4
        Re: Positive mind game

        great post becky

        I have always made meals for my family around what im having(before the slip),i just dont help myself to the things i know i cant!!.....how hard is that ?,i mean its got to be easier than making a whole load of seperate meals ...so that excuse has never worn with me
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        sharon
        restarted 4/06/06
        female 44yrs 5'2

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        • #5
          Re: Positive mind game

          Great one, Becky! I'm going to re-read your post from time to time....it is all true and we can diet right along w/any occasion that is coming up...planning is the key....but we should be planning each day on this WOE anyway!!! What a good pep talk for me - thanks!
          Nothing tastes as good as thin feels.

          SW 255 CW 255 GW 155

          Starting Over 9/28/08

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          • #6
            Re: Positive mind game

            Thanks for posting that Becky!

            It will be a great help to lots of our members I am sure!
            Wondering how to get 'most' of your net carbs from your induction veggies?
            Take a look at the thread from the latest Veggie Challenge to see how others manage it!



            Check out our Low Carb Recipes website and add to it!!





            F/60 yrs/5ft 5.5" (Though due to collapsing vertebrae I am now only 5'3" - but I refuse to recalculate my BMI )

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            • #7
              Re: Positive mind game

              Yes, obstacles are just things to be overcome. To use them as excuses for not sticking to our plan is just a cop-out. Thanks for the reminder, Becky.
              Odille

              Start 10 Sep 05
              F, 170cm (5'7"); 53
              ----------------------------
              I lost 11kg or 25.4lbs in 14 days on Induction!
              131 kg (HW/est SW)/ 104.3 (CW)/ 63 (GW)
              288.5 lbs / 223.5 / 138 (1kg = 2.202 lbs)
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              • #8
                Re: Positive mind game

                Wonderful post, Becky! Thank you so much! SO many of those excuses have been mine at one time or another. I've added it to my bookmarks so that if I'm having a bad day, I can access it!
                ~Marion INDUCTION restart January 10, 2010

                34, F, PCOS

                SW 440/CW 438/ GW 175





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                • #9
                  Re: Positive mind game

                  Becky,

                  Once again, you hit the nail on the head! Excuses are what got us into this to begin with. Changing our mindset, is as much a part of our WOE, as any other aspect of our lives. Turning a negative, into a positive, is much easier than we think!
                  Thanks for a great post.

                  Hugs, Tammy
                  F/47 / 5' 2.5" Start date 02/09/04
                  HW312/SW275/CW192/GW150


                  "Man who removes a mountain, begins by carrying away small stones"

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                  • #10
                    Re: Positive mind game

                    Fantastic post! Thank you for sharing your experience with your friend.

                    Age: 42
                    Height: 5'5"





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                    • #11
                      Re: Positive mind game

                      What a great post! (Worthy to be bumped up!)
                      ~Kat
                      F, 45, 5'7"



                      A year from now you'll wish you had started today

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                      • #12
                        Re: Positive mind game

                        How did I miss this when you first wrote it. Great post.

                        Can I add one?

                        Escuse: It's too expensive.

                        My Response: It is much cheaper to buy whole natural foods. This is a list of things that I would buy before and tend to forget how much I spent on these things.
                        1. Snack foods
                        2. Fast food restaraunts
                        3. Stopping for coffee, donut, or candy bars for a mid day snack
                        4. Doctors visits
                        5. Over the counter meds for everything you can imagine.

                        I never need to see the doctor anymore. I don't need all the over the counter meds because I don't have any issues. Lastly, I am not spending money on snacks all the time. Yep, I think the WOL is a bargain all around!!
                        Michele SW250/CW 226/GW150 F, 38, 5'6"

                        I was down to 175 in 2007 and I will get back there again!

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                        • #13
                          Re: Positive mind game

                          Thanks for putting a mirror out...I'm one big excuse. Keep saying I'm trying, and i keep sabotaging myself.
                          Lord, my dream is to lose this weight and to be healthier.

                          Patty female . 46yrs
                          SW 350
                          Small Goal. 325
                          Main Goal 145

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                          • #14
                            Re: Positive mind game

                            I think this post is wonderful!!! Everyday it seems more and more people come up with excuses that have very obvious answers. Sometimes I want to say "If you don't really want to do it then no one can make you!" (not very Positive I know but sometimes tact eludes me) I've been on the excuse making end many times. Sometimes we just need a kick in the rear to say "Hey if there is a will there is a way!" Thank you! Thank you! Thank You!
                            Misty, 27, 5' 6"
                            Atkins Start Date:07/16/06
                            SW:296/CW:278/Gw:140
                            KANSAS GIRL!!!!!!

                            Mini Goals:
                            1st: 275


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                            • #15
                              Re: Positive mind game

                              I have people who have seen the weight i have lost and say " i want to do that too". I help them, printed page after page of what to do, GAVE them the book. I sit and watch them eat things they KNOW are not allowed. What can one say? If you want to do it, you will. I have been encouraged to cheat. Do not bring me PIE. I will upset you by not eating it before I upset myself eating it. Monday I am taking atkins legal poppers to work to show them you have good options, you don't need tostito's and cheese to snack on. I do not participate in meals that they have catered that are not on my PLAN. Easiest comment for me:: I did not ask for your advise, permission, blessing or opinion. Just sit back and watch it work, because I AM WORKING IT.
                              Loner Insearchof Something Amazing
                              Female- age 41

                              HW 320
                              SW 265 or more
                              CW 249
                              first goal: 225
                              Second goal: 200
                              third goal:175
                              Fourth Goal:150
                              Goal Weight?????

                              climbing big ben 42/42 flights

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