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  • #16
    Re: Taking a break from the this WOE and ADBB.

    "think a bit about what causes my ups and downs with eating. I have never really wanted to look at it like an obsession, but I truely think thats what it is...an obsession with food/carbs. A strong addiction I never really recognized I had."


    I hope you find some comfort from knowing that it could have been me, or many of us on here who might have written that.

    Very few people on these boards just said to themselves one day "Right from now I am on Atkins" and never cheated" (although there are SOME and those have often been the Biggest Losers) - the majority have slipped now and again, some have never gone more than a month, some no more than 2 weeks.

    So, yes, the majority of us have had to battle our addictions, and like you come to terms with the fact that we were, in fact, addicted. I have a degree in psychology so can you imagine how hard it is for me to face the fact that I cannot even win every battle with myself to eat chocolate? It all seems so incredibly simple on paper, doesn't it - "just" give up refined carbs. So easy! But we are not pieces of paper - we aren't even rational! We are not Mr Spock on Star Trek. We are above all EMOTIONAL that is what makes us human.

    This is day 3 for me. And I am already feeling better. Come on, babes, stick with me! Let's fight this together.

    I just heard on the radio that some shipwrecked people swam to an oil rig and climbed up it to safety. Can you imagine how hard that must have been? If they can do this, surely the likes of us can manage to prevent ourselves from putting sugar and flour in our mouths?

    OK so giving up carbs is our Mount Evererest, its the North Pole, but humans have conquered both!

    Helena
    F49, 5'3"
    SW 342/CW 339/GW 200

    No chocolate 7 weeks - we are witnessing a miracle here!
    No cheats 4 weeks. Longest ever!
    No-weighing (I get too obsessed!)

    SWIMMING /WATER AEROBICS PAGE

    http://www.hastingspress.co.uk/swimnotgym.html9

    JOURNAL:

    http://www.atkinsdietbulletinboard.com/forums/showthread.php?t=36193

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    • #17
      Re: Taking a break from the this WOE and ADBB.

      Quitstretchin...I am glad you are back...It's all so hard I know, but like you said, and like I was thinking, if you leave here, where is the better place. What diet is easier than this one? If left to ourselves, will we turn to the next good option...
      For me, Atkins and lowcarb are what my body responds to soooo well. As with most everything, most diets work, our bodies respond well to certain ones, but we have to work them to make them work! Glad you are back!
      74 8/1/06
      SW225/CW142/GW135 83lbs GONE!
      2 YEARS and 9MONTHS!!! I've been here
      Jess Female/51/5'3

      www.jdudley.blog.com blog site

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      • #18
        Re: Taking a break from the this WOE and ADBB.

        Welcome back! I am glad you figured ut what you needed to, picked yourself up, and came back!
        Fitday

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        • #19
          Re: Taking a break from the this WOE and ADBB.

          So glad you decided to stick around!! Helena is right - its a difficult process and we are not perfect, but with each slip-up we must learn something about ourselves and attempt to modify that behavior. I have gone back and forth for the past two years with Atkins. The frustration and guilt is terrible, but I will tell you that the worst part is seeing that here I am two years later and much heavier than when I originally started. Don't give up! Take the knowledge you gained from this slip-up and use it to help you in the future.

          Great job pushing those feelings aside and moving forward!!!


          F, 28
          5'8"

          Re-Start Date: January 25, 2009

          SW:300
          CW:295
          GW: 180

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          • #20
            Re: Taking a break from the this WOE and ADBB.

            Welcome back. So happy you're here. Keep us posted and if you need help, just holler!
            Starting Date 3/12/04 285/165/145 - F



            Dedication gives wings to our dreams and keeps them in flight! In One Word...COMMITTMENT.

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            • #21
              Re: Taking a break from the this WOE and ADBB.

              Woooo! I'm so glad you decided to stay!

















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              • #22
                Re: Taking a break from the this WOE and ADBB.

                The response from you all is amazing! I am taking it day by day and am at day 3 so far and trucking along. I am considering starting a journal and jotting down my thoughts, etc... there from time to time. I have never been a journal keeper and I never really considered starting one here since I figured I probably would not post consistantly. I think I may reconsider though since this WOE and all of its challenges at times produces a lot worth writing about!!!

                Thanks a million once again. Despite my desire to throw in the towel, I seemed to come right back here. I haven't found anything that works better than this WOE, so I don't know where I thought I was going!!

                3 days and counting! Thanks again!!!

                BTW....all of the stress over leaving Atkins and ADBB, I lost 2 pounds!!! I can change my ticker from 238 to 236! Who'da thunk it?
                32 y/o female/ 5'3"

                PREVIOUS STATS (FEB 2007)
                HW 244 / End Weight: 236

                CURRENT STATS (7/25/08 )
                HW 250 /CW 239 /GW 135

                MILESTONES
                7/25/08...250 lbs
                8/12/08...239
                8/21/08...236















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                • #23
                  Re: Taking a break from the this WOE and ADBB.

                  Welcome back!!!! Baby steps...day by single day.... you'll get to goal I'm willing to bet!

                  Good news on your bonus 2lb loss!!!
                  Before and after:






                  PLEDGING FLIGHTS
                  Completed: 1st set of buildings and mountains (Everest,M.Blanc & Kilimanjaro, twice); Tower Masts & Chimneys; More virtual buildings; Challenger's Choice x 2 (volcanos and mountains on Mars). Currently climbing: Mount Snowdon again: 416/475

                  Start 10 Jan 2005. Maintenance since Aug. 2005.
                  F/56yrs/5'.4"
                  SW:77.7 LW:56.5 CW:60.1 (kilos)

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                  • #24
                    Re: Taking a break from the this WOE and ADBB.

                    I'm so glad your back. Just keep at it. It will get better.
                    God Bless
                    Nichole
                    ~Nichole~





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                    SouLThinking
                    Married to Jeff
                    Mom to 3 wonderful Boys
                    Brett 20(US MARINE)
                    Zach 8
                    Ethan 4
                    2004 pre-pregnancy 60 lb loss with Atkins
                    (SW 240/177 LW)
                    MINI GOAL 177 (MET 4/10/10)
                    NOW ON TO LOSING NEW WEIGHT

                    RE-Start
                    01/01/2010 SW 195.0
                    SW240/RSW195/CW177/GW145(?)



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                    • #25
                      Re: Taking a break from the this WOE and ADBB.

                      Hey Quitstretchin,

                      You'd be nutz to leave a group this supportive!



                      How are you doing today?

















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                      • #26
                        Re: Taking a break from the this WOE and ADBB.

                        Originally posted by Sweet_Sadie
                        Hey Quitstretchin,

                        You'd be nutz to leave a group this supportive!



                        How are you doing today?
                        WHAT WAS I THINKIN'!!


                        THANKS AGAIN YOU ALL. ITS DAY 5 AND I'M OVER THAT INITIAL HUMP. TAKIN' IT DAY BY DAY.
                        32 y/o female/ 5'3"

                        PREVIOUS STATS (FEB 2007)
                        HW 244 / End Weight: 236

                        CURRENT STATS (7/25/08 )
                        HW 250 /CW 239 /GW 135

                        MILESTONES
                        7/25/08...250 lbs
                        8/12/08...239
                        8/21/08...236















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                        • #27
                          Re: Taking a break from the this WOE and ADBB.

                          QS:

                          Way to go! This is wonderful news...

                          You have to know that I had great success with Atkins 6 years ago, and then moderatly so two years ago. I have been struggling on and on with this. Especially this last year, the same 20-30 pounds up and down.

                          I think, and this is just my opinion, that when something is so deeply entwined with you identity, your life, and the way the world treats you, and has been for a long time, it takes a while for some of us to change. Some are ready to shed that skin, and do so quickly. The rest of us start to emerge, face the scary world, and go back.

                          You only fail when you stop trying.
                          278/275/271/160


                          Earth is crammed with heaven,
                          And every common bush afire with God,
                          But only he who sees, takes off his shoes.
                          Elizabeth Barrett Browning



                          Daily Goals:
                          No wasted carbs.
                          Water intake .5 -1 gallon.
                          Exercise 60 minutes 5x week
                          Get in the right veggies.

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                          • #28
                            Re: Taking a break from the this WOE and ADBB.

                            Originally posted by womanpraised
                            QS:

                            Way to go! This is wonderful news...
                            You have to know that I had great success with Atkins 6 years ago, and then moderatly so two years ago. I have been struggling on and on with this. Especially this last year, the same 20-30 pounds up and down. I think, and this is just my opinion, that when something is so deeply entwined with you identity, your life, and the way the world treats you, and has been for a long time, it takes a while for some of us to change. Some are ready to shed that skin, and do so quickly. The rest of us start to emerge, face the scary world, and go back.

                            You only fail when you stop trying.
                            Couldn't have said it better! Some of us take a little longer than others. I'm am realizing this now and decided that I just didn't want to give up. Coming here to this board makes a huge difference and I am glad for it!!

                            Taking it day-by-day!!!
                            32 y/o female/ 5'3"

                            PREVIOUS STATS (FEB 2007)
                            HW 244 / End Weight: 236

                            CURRENT STATS (7/25/08 )
                            HW 250 /CW 239 /GW 135

                            MILESTONES
                            7/25/08...250 lbs
                            8/12/08...239
                            8/21/08...236















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                            • #29
                              Re: Taking a break from the this WOE and ADBB.

                              Quitstretching, I am SOOO glad you did not want to give up. Giving up is the only thing that will stop and reverse things. Giving up is the thing that keeps us from our real dreams, wishes and goals. I am glad you come here and share and seek motivation for your transformation.
                              74 8/1/06
                              SW225/CW142/GW135 83lbs GONE!
                              2 YEARS and 9MONTHS!!! I've been here
                              Jess Female/51/5'3

                              www.jdudley.blog.com blog site

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