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What a night!
Well this really has nothing to do with Adkins, but I just want to vent.
Well it started out as a nice day/afternoon home alone, just me and my kitties, when I got a phone call from my friend begging me to come over. Now she was really drunk and not taking "no" for an answer. So against my boyfriends wishes (no I don't take orders from him, he just doesn't like her) I went over there, telling her it would be only 30 minutes then I would come home...hey it's a good bike ride, exercise!
Anyway I get there and there are these 3 guys there one of which was her boyfriend, some Iraqi thug (no i'm not rasist, just continue reading). So for the first 30 minutes it was fine, I was drinking my diet coke as she was getting even more wasted. At one point I knew I couldn't leave her alone with these guys because her boyfriend was calling her a whore behind her back and the others were grabbing her in inappropraite places. She started falling asleep in her chair and I asked one of the nicer looking ones to help me get her up stairs, well that was the idea. We tumbled over and she hit her head and passed out for a second. By this time I am begging her to go lay down and take it easy, of course she refusses. After much bickering she finally agreed, but as she was going to grab her phone her boyfriend said something which upset her and she shoved him, that is when things went from ugly to worse. He "pushed" her with his fist in her face at which time I shoved him away from her. Then after about an hour of fighting and trying to get him and his friends to leave they start ganging up on me. Telling me to stay out of it, they are grown people (yeah right). When I refused to back down her boyfriend begain throwing low blows at me (calling me fat, ugly, saying how he was going to mess me up, asking how I ever got someone to have sex with me, etc.) I kept edging him on to go ahead and do something, he doesn't scare me. I had 50 lbs on him. Anyway he finally said something about my boyfriend and I snapped, I lundged at him and accidently hit my friend before I got to him, which might be a good thing because he was stand at the top of the stairs. Anyway I asked my friend,"me or him, who stays?" She choose him, so I walked out (with verbal diarea (sp?) still coming out of his mouth at me) and called my boyfriend and brothers for back up. When they got there my bother was all concerned and asked if I was ok, I was shacking (from the addrinaline (sp?)) and said yeah, you could still hear them going at it.
At this time we called the police
, they came and I gave my statement and showed my wounds. They taked to her and ofcourse she denied everything! OMFG! She asked me to protect her from this happening again. I did what I could and she still choose the loser.
Tonight I walked away from my best friend and she knows how I feel about this subject (I've been through it all before with another friend who I don't even now where she is) and I can't do it again. I lost my friend today and that makes me sad, but I am afraid for her and wish she could see how special she really is. If not for her, then for her daughter.
Sorry if it was kind of long it is just killing me inside.
Well it started out as a nice day/afternoon home alone, just me and my kitties, when I got a phone call from my friend begging me to come over. Now she was really drunk and not taking "no" for an answer. So against my boyfriends wishes (no I don't take orders from him, he just doesn't like her) I went over there, telling her it would be only 30 minutes then I would come home...hey it's a good bike ride, exercise!
Anyway I get there and there are these 3 guys there one of which was her boyfriend, some Iraqi thug (no i'm not rasist, just continue reading). So for the first 30 minutes it was fine, I was drinking my diet coke as she was getting even more wasted. At one point I knew I couldn't leave her alone with these guys because her boyfriend was calling her a whore behind her back and the others were grabbing her in inappropraite places. She started falling asleep in her chair and I asked one of the nicer looking ones to help me get her up stairs, well that was the idea. We tumbled over and she hit her head and passed out for a second. By this time I am begging her to go lay down and take it easy, of course she refusses. After much bickering she finally agreed, but as she was going to grab her phone her boyfriend said something which upset her and she shoved him, that is when things went from ugly to worse. He "pushed" her with his fist in her face at which time I shoved him away from her. Then after about an hour of fighting and trying to get him and his friends to leave they start ganging up on me. Telling me to stay out of it, they are grown people (yeah right). When I refused to back down her boyfriend begain throwing low blows at me (calling me fat, ugly, saying how he was going to mess me up, asking how I ever got someone to have sex with me, etc.) I kept edging him on to go ahead and do something, he doesn't scare me. I had 50 lbs on him. Anyway he finally said something about my boyfriend and I snapped, I lundged at him and accidently hit my friend before I got to him, which might be a good thing because he was stand at the top of the stairs. Anyway I asked my friend,"me or him, who stays?" She choose him, so I walked out (with verbal diarea (sp?) still coming out of his mouth at me) and called my boyfriend and brothers for back up. When they got there my bother was all concerned and asked if I was ok, I was shacking (from the addrinaline (sp?)) and said yeah, you could still hear them going at it.
At this time we called the police
, they came and I gave my statement and showed my wounds. They taked to her and ofcourse she denied everything! OMFG! She asked me to protect her from this happening again. I did what I could and she still choose the loser. Tonight I walked away from my best friend and she knows how I feel about this subject (I've been through it all before with another friend who I don't even now where she is) and I can't do it again. I lost my friend today and that makes me sad, but I am afraid for her and wish she could see how special she really is. If not for her, then for her daughter.
Sorry if it was kind of long it is just killing me inside.
Your a very good friend,I am sorry she lost you. But like you said she made her choice,a very wrong one but she made one. I truly hope she realizes things before it gets worse.
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