I just wanted to add to this thread that the hard tough love/strict Atkins approach here is what really helped me get myself back on track this time and made me see the light about how I was doing it wrong the first time. It was true, I wasn't doing Atkins and it took my failure to realize that. I wish someone had told me that what I was doing was "not Atkins".
I thought I could do "Atkins my way" previously, with little cheats here and there, not tracking my food, not really finding my CCLL, etc. And it was working, right, so no problem? I lost 125 lbs. Well, then I stalled long and hard and didn't know how to deal with it. My first thought? Well, maybe Atkins doesn't really work for me afterall? I had given up all those wonderful foods (that I was still having here and there) and it still didn't work? My rationale at the time was that I saw others "tweaking" how they did Atkins, both here and on other sites having these little cheats and treats, and thought I too was "doing Atkins" the same way. Perhaps I only read and saw what I wanted to and ignored all the corrections and advise that tried to help people keep to the stricter version of Atkins.
Well, turns out the tough love was what I really needed. I came back after regaining alot of weight, trying a different weight loss program, and then realizing I already knew one way of losing weight that HAD worked and hoped it might work again.
And in re-reading the book and posts here, I realized I had been doing Atkins wrong. This is why I call my journal "rediscovery of Atkins". Because I took the time this time to read the entire book, re-read the many posts here, and figured out what I had done wrong and what I needed to do to make this work. I still make mistakes here and there but I'm doing MUCH better this time.
So I'm a little sensitive about people saying they can tweak Atkins to suit how they want to it. I believe you can.... within the rules. Obviously, some people can do their own version of low carb/close to Atkins and still lose weight. But someone like me, with health conditions that make weight loss slow, doing Atkins strictly as designed (and when you understand the logic and science about why Dr. Atkins designed it this way, it makes sense) is very key to being successful. Doing it right helped me with the hunger, knowing what I could and could not eat, and developing a routine that has kept me on track for the very long haul that I have to take to lose so much weight.
This is why I think the stern advice and sometimes tough love is needed here. I was distracted by some of the posts I've seen here and elsewhere that seemed to make it okay to have little cheats, or even legal treats such as fake sweets. I'm sure others are the same and this is why some of those here are quick to correct or constructively criticize.
Are some people turned off by the tough love? No doubt. But look at the failure rate of those who try Atkins and then also give it a bad name. People want a quick fix to weight loss and that just doesn't happen. It's a harsh reality.
You have to remember that posts here are read by many and for consistency, we need to follow one way of doing Atkins, that's why 2002 DANDR. I would rather posts give the right view of Atkins done right and consistently, backed up by successful people who have made it work. Maybe then readers will be more inclined to think twice about how they are doing Atkins instead of making the mistakes I did. If people would rather do a different version of Atkins that 2002 DANDR or "their own way", there are other forums for that.
Could some be a little less harsh when they post? Probably, but I tend to give people the benefit of the doubt on the Internet and believe they mean the best and are just trying to help.
Sorry this is a bit long, but after having to re-lose 80+ lbs again and losing years where I could have been almost to my goal weight, this is rather personal and important to me.

) is my tremendously thick skin. I can take a beating and keep on bleating!
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