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  • #16
    Re: How much weight do you have to lose before someone notices?

    When I lost my weight, NOBODY noticed. lol

    You see, I'd started Atkins after moving to Manhattan in 2001, in the summertime before classes began. (Didn't know anyone yet!) As classes began, I was already about 125 and a size 6-8 from 141 and a tight 10. The last 15 pounds came off very slowly during my first semester at this new school, and I made goal before winter break. People at school didn't really know me well enough from before to notice that I was losing, and 15 pounds over a few months off of someone they don't know ... it was lost on them. lol

    Meanwhile, my husband married me when I was at my heaviest, so while he was saying I looked great as I lost, he was hardly ever one to say, "You don't need to be eating that, honey!" LOL My family & friends loved me the way I was, even though according to medical charts for my sex and height, I was indeed carrying extra weight on my 5'3" frame. Thus I can say with utmost certainty that this weight loss was 150% for me and nobody else. My default, I had to keep myself pumped - and if anything, I believe this has helped me stay motivated and consistent long after claiming goal almost 4 years ago.

    My point? Focus on the tape measure, your clothes, the mirror, and even the scale! Have your body fat taken by a professional as early on as you can, and don't treat yourself to it again 'til you've made goal! Take Polaroids of yourself standing - or better yet, sitting - in front of a full-length mirror once a month, wearing as little as possible. (Cut off the head if it sets your mind at ease!) Take pleasure in buying new clothes ... or having your old ones taken in to better fit your new body. Enjoy the obvious admiration from the opposite sex. Stay focused, and keep your eye on the prize, and you'll have only the most important person involved - yourself - to thank for it.
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    • #17
      Re: How much weight do you have to lose before someone notices?

      Or it could be that your friends like you for you and never bothered with how you looked!
      Elsie150
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      • #18
        Re: How much weight do you have to lose before someone notices?

        Hey Sheila,

        Thanks for reminding me that I'm doing this for me and no one else.

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        • #19
          Re: How much weight do you have to lose before someone notices?

          Originally posted by Elsie150
          Or it could be that your friends like you for you and never bothered with how you looked!
          Nah, I don't think so 'cause one of my boldest friends told me that I needed to lose weight.

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          • #20
            Re: How much weight do you have to lose before someone notices?

            Okay, Boy here. Women don't comment either. I had a visit from a friend recently and I am pretty sure she was sent to check me out. She said nothing about my weight. I am much trimmer than she has ever known me. It goes both ways.

            A part of it is just not wanting to say anything, less you jinks it. Don't make it a gender thing though. Complements will come in good time!

            All you girls are looking GREAT!

            Congrats!

            Dave
            SW235/CW189/GW195
            6'3",Male 38 Washington State
            Started 6/29/05


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            • #21
              Re: How much weight do you have to lose before someone notices?

              I lost 70 lbs before anyone took notice! Now I kinda wish people would stop asking about it! I can't go anywhere that I don't spend over 1/2 an hour discussing my weight. I try to be patient about it, though, because most people have been so complimentary! I have even had my husbands friends and my neighbor tell me that I am one hot chick! HA! The title "hot chick" just doesn't seem to go along with the way I view myself!

              To say the least it has been an interesting experience taking in the way people treat you and act toward you once you completely change your body. Some are excited for me, some now give me extra attention, some act like nothing has changed, and still others who never spoke to me or gave me the time of day now bend over backwards to spend time with me. (These types really "irk" me!) I have learned alot about peoples character throughout this ordeal. Funny thing is, I am still the same old me that I was when I was 100+ pounds heavier! In the Bible, I Peter 3 tells us that beauty comes from within!

              Blessings!
              Start weight 01/01/10 ~ 212lbs./Current 200



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              • #22
                Re: How much weight do you have to lose before someone notices?

                It really depends on the person. Some people you can tell right away and others it takes them 50 lbs to notice. For me, people started noticing after 5 lbs, I really don't know how. After almost 30 lbs lost I still can't see a difference in myself. But the funniest thing is, I had this friend in elementary school and I met up with him about two weeks ago in my freshman year of high school. Even he can tell I lost weight!!! I find that quite fascinating.

                Matt
                Age: 14
                Height: 5' 10"
                Gender: Male
                Starting Date: 5/16/05
                Second Time Starting Date: 5/1/06
                Starting Weight: 185

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                • #23
                  Re: How much weight do you have to lose before someone notices?

                  To add to the suggestion that people might be afraid to mention weightloss in case you are losing weight because you are ill.
                  I have had two instances of this - one was an exstudent and occasional customer who rang up to see if I was OK as she had been told by one of her friends that I was wasting away and must be ill!
                  The other was a neighbour we know slightly who had been told by one of his neighbours that 'the lady from the stained glass shop has cancer' and had asked his wife to ask my husband casually how my treatment was progressing!!!
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                  • #24
                    Re: How much weight do you have to lose before someone notices?

                    I thought of something else .... while at work, I actually had a few people email me to ask me if I was losing weight. Their email normally started, Barbara and I were talking and we were wondering if you're losing weight." I kept hearing about people talking about it before just asking me.

                    I was impressed though. I went to the post office to mail off a package. I really don't go inside the post office much. If we need to mail something, I try to get my husband to go . But, I went inside and the postman at the counter said, "Wow, you've lost a lot of weight. You look great." I called my husband afterwards to let him know that the mailman noticed my weight loss.
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                    Age: 33
                    5' 5.5"
                    Started: 1/31/05
                    230/165/140
                    Restarted: 09/29/08
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                    • #25
                      Re: How much weight do you have to lose before someone notices?

                      I think when people see you every day they don't notice so much... I'd lost 25 pounds.... and finally got pissed and asked my hubby if he'd noticed... I got an unimpressive 'yeah'... I asked him how much he thought I'd lost... he said 'probably about 8 pounds'... in my best SINCERE (sincerely sarcastic) I said ' nah, 6'

                      (I guess I should be grateful he doesn't dwell on such things coz he hasn't said a word about my weight gain either)

                      BUT... when I came back to school (work) after being gone all summer.... many of my co-workers thought I looked positively skinny (I'm not.. but it was good to hear anyway)

                      SO.... just don't let them get you down... or too up (I think all the compliements I got August 5 is responsible partly for me slacking the WHOLE month of August and not losing another pound)

                      so....,,, it really works both ways for me..
                      2-15-10 194.8 - highest ever!
                      2-20-10 190.4 - new scale
                      3-20-10 177.8 - 1 month
                      5-10-10 169.8 - 25 pounds gone!

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                      • #26
                        Re: How much weight do you have to lose before someone notices?

                        My husband didn't notice either when I gained weight so I guess I can't expect him to notice when I lose weight eh?

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                        • #27
                          Re: How much weight do you have to lose before someone notices?

                          Originally posted by lbrowne
                          My husband just doesn't notice the fat when I gain it or lack of it when I lose weight. He always thinks I'm beautiful even when I look my worse. He sees me, but not my changes. He doesn't ever notice the wrinkles or the aging either. I'm not going to complain!
                          This is my situation also. My Husband has always been supportive no matter what I've done or how I've looked. And he's a great cheerleader if I tell him how much I've lost, but just looking at me I don't think he actually sees. And I'm not going to complain either. The man would love me if I weighed 500 pounds and had rainbow colored hair. My Mom notices though, she says something all the time (good things). Keeps me pumped up

                          I didn't think any one else had really noticed ... but they must have since they keep complimenting me on my glasses LOL (they're 2 years old). I figure that's code for "you look good but I don't know why"
                          Female/45/5'5
                          283/202/150

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                          • #28
                            Re: How much weight do you have to lose before someone notices?

                            Geez! For me it was about 100 pounds. But let me explain.

                            When you go from being really overweight to being thinner but still wearing really baggy clothes, who notices that? I volunteered at a local gradeschool every week last year and no one noticed how much weight I had lost until I wore something tighter-fitting to school that day. I also (for the first time all year) did my hair and wore makeup.

                            The compliments hit me right and left! I had teachers sneaking into the copyroom in their breaktimes to see me, and they said they just couldn't believe how much I'd lost!

                            So, sometimes all it takes is losing the loose clothes...even more than the weight.
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                            • #29
                              Re: How much weight do you have to lose before someone notices?

                              I found there were different groups of people when it comes to NOTICING OUR WEIGHT LOSS>

                              1) Those who are jealous and will NEVER say a word.

                              2) The ones who pretend not to notice or make comments that hurt your feelings -- either by saying fat things to you or saying you are unhealthy and should quit your new eating plan. They know that if you keep losing, then they can no longer make excuses that it is impossible to lose.

                              3) The ones who genuinely love you and don't want to make a big deal out of your weight loss because if you gain it back, they don't want you to be embarrassed.

                              4) Those who track every morsel you eat and watch you like a hawk so that they can either be a part of your weight loss or point fingers if you go off-plan.

                              5) People who haven't seen you for awhile, notice and are shocked by how wonderful you look. They keep telling you how great you look and ask how you did it and are very interested.

                              At least these are the ones I've met. After the first 6 months on Atkins, I finally realized that it didn't matter if anyone said anything. I measured myself and took pleasure in seeing the results of my hard work and that kept me motivated. Even after 100+ pounds, I still have some people who never make a comment to me. I guess it just goes to show we can't change others, but with Atkins, we can sure change ourselves!!
                              Starting Date 3/12/04 285/165/145 - F



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                              • #30
                                Re: How much weight do you have to lose before someone notices?

                                I'm guilty of the baggy clothes thing too.. I'm never happy with my shape.. or really self-conscious about it... even when I was 105......

                                so I've lost over 40 pounds since my heaviest... but still wearing the same baggy jumpers.. and even some pants that now I don't even have to unbutton to pull down.. (and I NEVER tuck in a shirt... all my blouses are split tail wear out things.. ) I've always hated my pudgy belly and am not big on ab work
                                2-15-10 194.8 - highest ever!
                                2-20-10 190.4 - new scale
                                3-20-10 177.8 - 1 month
                                5-10-10 169.8 - 25 pounds gone!

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