Re: what do you snack on???
The fact remains that you eat when you are hungry or if you have gone more than 6 waking hours without eating. If you aren't hungry and it hasn't been more than 6 waking hours without eating something, then your basis for eating is more emotional than it is nutrative. Read Chapter 21 "The Psychology of WEight Loss: BEhavorial Changes for a Healthier Life".
Theres a bunch. Also, I dont think she would have taken the comment personally if it didnt say the "thats what got you fat in the first place". Saying something like " over snacking adds to the reasoning for weight issues", would have been a little nicer put. Noone likes the word "fat". We call ourselves that everyday and it sucks to be reminded by others. Even though Im sure the comment wasnt mean to offend, she DID have a smiley face
. Come on, forgive and love one another. We need more of it in this world.
Take care
We can use all the feel-good-about-yourself words that we want. We can even call ourselves "overweight" or "big boned" or "heavy set" or "chunky" or whatever. But the fact, unless you have a BMI of 24 and want to get to a BMI of 19, you are on this diet because you are fat and need to lose weight. Just looking at the start and goal weights of posters here, it's clear the majority of us do not have normal BMIs and want to lose a pound or two.
I'm sorry if the word fat offends people here. It shouldn't. Knowing you are fat should motivate you to stick on your Atkins and not find any excuses to fall off or cheat or whatever. The more you con yourself into thinking "Oh, I'm just heavy-set", the more you con yourself into eating that bag of candy or that chocolate cake or whatever, because you aren't fat---you're just heavy-set and it won't hurt you to eat it because you aren't fat, just heavy-set.
If I didn't face up to the fact that I was fat and kept telling myself I'm just "heavy set" or "overweight" or whatever, I wouldn't have gone on a weight loss diet. But to each his own.
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Theres a bunch. Also, I dont think she would have taken the comment personally if it didnt say the "thats what got you fat in the first place". Saying something like " over snacking adds to the reasoning for weight issues", would have been a little nicer put. Noone likes the word "fat". We call ourselves that everyday and it sucks to be reminded by others. Even though Im sure the comment wasnt mean to offend, she DID have a smiley face
. Come on, forgive and love one another. We need more of it in this world.Take care
I'm sorry if the word fat offends people here. It shouldn't. Knowing you are fat should motivate you to stick on your Atkins and not find any excuses to fall off or cheat or whatever. The more you con yourself into thinking "Oh, I'm just heavy-set", the more you con yourself into eating that bag of candy or that chocolate cake or whatever, because you aren't fat---you're just heavy-set and it won't hurt you to eat it because you aren't fat, just heavy-set.
If I didn't face up to the fact that I was fat and kept telling myself I'm just "heavy set" or "overweight" or whatever, I wouldn't have gone on a weight loss diet. But to each his own.

) I restarted Oct 27th and I've never had so much motivation and success. Im no longer making excuses for myself and thank you for reminding me that it will only help me in the long run. <3




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