ICES REVISITED (NO EXCUSES) All or Nothing!!!

[iyamamaschke]

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AWW Yoly I''m sorry I missed you online but, I would be the first to make you laugh and wash your hair and help you out if I could. I know the hospital can take it's tole I ahve had my run ins with the hospital having had been there with my Littlest when he was barely 5 months old with bloody diarreah from a Camphlobacter infectio he got from our friend who worked in the slaughter plant Nice. SO I ahve been there and I totally understand where you are comming from.

Try and get some sleep tonight and be fresh for tomorrow.

I Love ya

Sarah

[speedygt03]

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Glad you are feeling well- We know you are gonna do great at your new job!!!!!!!

Ummm- what the heck are you gonig through a bottle of conditioner a week for!!! LOL---I don't use a bottle a month and I wash peoples hair all day long!!!! LOL

I have extremely dry hair and can only use a certain type of conditioner that is *REALLY* thick! I dunno, When I had my hair done a while back they told me about this stuff that I should order which would put the nourishment back in, but still keep the good oils that are in my hair, in. So it comes in a jar and I scoop it out with my hand, it wont squeeze out of a bottle. LOL. So I shampoo and then put this stuff in it, do everything else..then wash it out and THEN use regualr conditioner (Pantene Sleek & smooth) But I love it, thats why i'm scared to try the regular stuff from L'oreal. Plus, I moved into this new place in May and the water here dried out my scalp really bad so I use Denorex for my shampoo which burns like all get-out. But its what I have to do, in order to be able to wear my hair straightened.

*Krystle

[loser4life]

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Pantene will make your hair fall out. No Joke. We have Clients that come in and complain about their hair falling out ad ask them what kind of shampoo and conditioner they are using... 95% or better say pantene! Supposedly it has something in it that does sleek your hair down, kinda like a glue or something, it gets stuck in your hair follicles.

Yoly- Checked in for ya! see ya round there soon!!!

[speedygt03]

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ROFL, Well I have *PLENTY* of hair, actually too much, and I've been using it forever. I haven't noticed it falling out...but i'm sure it happens. It just depends on the person i'm sure. If my hair fell out I would go NUTS!!!

Thanks for the info!

*Krystle

[iyamamaschke]

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So is your head dry and flakey or what??? Oh that's gotta be nastie but, if it's flakey there is a most excellent home remedy for that. Use your regular unmedicated shampoo and put Eucalyptus oil in it. Not only does it get rid of itchyness it also gets rid of the flakeys LOL. It works really great Tea Tree works in the same way as the Eucalyptus and is cheeper. LOL.

So your hair is Curley then. Mine is really Curley and the only thing I can use is this hair serum which ROCKS. I get it at the drugstore and I ahve used a ton of professional stuff but this **** works the best it's called Mode Miracle Serum. ANd ROCKS out man this stuff basically lays down the curicle and makes the hair so shiney and sleek it's rediculous. Always put that stuff in when the hair is wet though. The only stuff in Prof stuff that was even comparable was the AG serum stuff it was really thick and rocked but, I can't find it any more. I bought this stuff for 4 dollars at Shoppers Drug Mart when I was out of everything and Broke as **** now I won't buy anything elese.

Also another trick if your hair is that dry is take that Awesome conditioner you ahve and put 1 TSP is a spray bottle Put distilled water in it shake it you got rockin leave in spray for your hair and it works great that's basically what leave in is any how diluted conditioner. I am a hairstylist but, even so I am broke too so I ahve had to figure ways to make my stuff go further. I love the Professional Conditioners and that's what I do make them into leave ins and stuff more Bang for your Buck.

Take care Just wanted to chime in ROFL. Rikki ya probably think I'm Nuts.



Sarah

[speedygt03]

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I got a rash on the back on my neck along my hair line. It was red blotches and it didnt itch, but i picked at it because it was nasty, which made it worse, lol. then it started to flake a little. but i could never wear my hair up and thats why i started asking around. i tried denorex and it went away completely. plus it gets out the gels & hairspray and everything that i put in my hair. it burnt like hel| when i first started using it because it would burn that spot where the rash was, but now i kinda look forward to it, because after wards my hair moves so much better and has started to grow again, lol. i thought it stopped there for a while! My hair should look alot worse than it does with all of the colorings and straightening things i've had done to it. I got a perm when i was little and i hated it, so we had it straightened, many many times because it never worked. then i had an afro when they finally got it straight ROFL!

now i use my own straightener when i wanna wear it straight (because i can still make it curly with some mouse and hairspray) and i also use Paul Mitchell SUPER skinny serum to make is really straight and smooth without looking greasy. I cant deal with greasy!

ok enough about hair, lol. Thanks Sarah for your advice!

*Krystle

[iyamamaschke]

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Hey No Problem My hair Used to be down to My bUM it was soo long and Gorgeous but, it made me look like an old lady so I cut it off. Now that I am losing weight I kinda miss it cause it felt sexy LOL. I may grow my hair back don't know as for now I just keep conditioning ROFL.

I only use semi permanents in my hair now I totally destroyed it for years hairstyling LOL. SO I opt to chop it and grow it out all healthy and haven't colored it since. It's more fun with the semis I can color it whatever I want and it always comes out WOOHOO. Except for the time after I ahd my first and colored it burgundy and it turned out ronal Mc Donald RED OUCH I cried and cried and washed and washed it too over 2 months to come out and let me tell ya I was sooo damn happy when it did ROFL. It was actually really funny. But at the time it wasn't.

Any how I better run Have a great day off.

Sarah

[iyamamaschke]

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Oh that stuff I told ya about for the shampoo with tea tree or Eucaliptus will help that. Also if you can stand the smell Oregano Oil is great for Rashes.

Sarah

[iyamamaschke]

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Hey where is everyone today EVERYONE take off or what LOL. Am I the only one who is around ROFL. Ok, so I just had to take a pic of my lower legs the pic doesn't do them Justice at all but, I wanted to show you and look look my new shoes Don't they ROCK or what it's sooo excellent I get to try them out tomorrow and I am sooo excited.



Can you see the Huge muscle on the side of my shins it's rediculous but, I love it.

Sarah

[loser4life]

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nice shoes!!! I just got some new ones too! Mine are mostly white and gray adn silver and have some orange in them. They are Nikes... I need to break them in.. I may do RIU again tonight to work on that some!!! LOL

[Yoly1001]

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Hi guys, I'm home pretty much for good now. Thank goodness! My mom is much better and my dad is home with her so I trust that he will take good care of her. My nephew is home from the hospital too, so that's good, everyone is on the mend.

I am feeling ok, just really tired and my body hurts soooo much. My back and my hands especially, I was helping my mom quite a bit with pulling and lifting. I am gonna take another day off tonite from excercise but I should be fine for tomorrow morning. I took a tylenol3 so that should do the trick.

I have been doing really bad on my eating, everything legal but not nerely enough. I may have gotten 700 calories today and I don't have enough energy to make myself something. I'm gonna go and check in the other challenge and then I"m off to bed, eventhough it's only 6 here. I'll be that much better tomorrow.

[loser4life]

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Glad to hear the family is home and recovering!!! Girl- eat something... I can't stop eating! sheesh... I hate it when I am an eating machine!!!! I love it when I just don't care to eat... does that make sense? lol I am just constantly irritated lately it seems, and tom just left so I don't knwo what the heck my prob is!!! but I am yet again driving myself nuts!

[speedygt03]

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Glad to hear that your family is doing better Yoly.

I'm in a funk today. I don't know what's wrong with me. I went out to eat tonight with a couple of the people that I got along with at my job, I ate fine. I'm just in a mood, LOL. And all these sad songs on the radio aren't helping. I did RIU today, but even during that I had no enthusiasm...nothing. I'm just a bump on a log today. I need to go shopping or something. Tomorrow I have to go and get a new lisence because I lost mine somewhere, then get my nails filled because they look like sh|t, lol. I prolly should get a hair cut too.

I feel crappy right now, not sure why. I'm gonna go, try to go to sleep. Bye!

*Krystle

[Yoly1001]

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Hey Krystle, I hope you woke up feeling better today, better yet it's early I hope your still sleeping, wish I was but little Miss Abi had other plans for me this morning. Well I'm glad I"m up early, I did RiU this morning and straitened up the house. I'm about to go make myself something yummy for breakfast too.

Ok, so something else is going on and I really need to talk about it with people that I would consider friends and you guys are it. My sister and I had a big falling out on Wednesday. We said some pretty ugly things to each other and I really think that it was mostly due to being stressed out with all the family issues that we were going through. I acknowledged my part in it and asked my mom to invite her over for dinner the next night, THursday. I thought we were ok, I knew there was some tension there but I thought we could move past it. I turned to her and said, "hey are you willing to agree with the idea that yesterday's insanity was just due to a really stressful situation" and she said no, she went on to say something else but got interrupted, I guess it wasn't the time to talk about it. Well fine I thought we could talk about it later. I think she felt excluded from helping my mom, I'm not sure why, I let her do almost everything in the morning with her. Anyway it's a long story but every time that something like this happens I start questioning every little thing I could have possibly done and wondering what I did to cause the arguement and then feeling really guilty about it. But i've looked at it over and over again and I can't find anything that I did wrong at all. The issue is that Thanksgiving is next week, and then we are all going to a wedding, and then abi's birthday, christmas, and new years all around the corner. I dont' want all the holidays to be spoiled because of this, we were all getting along so good too! That is really rare, I just feel like no matter what I do I can't seem to get it right. All i was trying ot do was help my mother, and try to balance everyone's feelings, but i guess I didn't do a good enough job. I really want to just drop everybody on everything and say to **** with it and not even go. I am so tired from this week and I'm hurt and I don't want to deal with anymore of this stuff. I already tried to make it better, I've talked to my mom about it. I don't want to stress her out but I told her that I may not be there for the holidays after all. It's not fare to her or to my other sister who are dealing with these big huge issues to have to deal with me and my sister's problem too. It's like one more thing added to an already impossible situation that really doesn't need to be there.

Another thing that has me really sad is that I can't go visit my mom. My sister, Brenda's little boy Connor is staying at my parent's house with my sister and BIL for a few months until their house si built and his imune system is really weak and so he can't have any other kids with him. So that means I can't take Abi, which basically comes down to I can't go. I feel so sad about this, I know it's necessary, and understand why but my mom and my nephew are sick and I want to be with them helping both of them in any way I can and I can't. It's just so much stuff going on and I am so emotionally strung out. I wish that God would just take care of it all for me, He knows that I can't take care of it myself.

Ok, sorry that I dropped all of that on you guys' lap but I really needed to get it out.

[iyamamaschke]

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Oh my Yoly, I'm soo sorry about your issues with you Sister But, if it's hurt feeling over you being there to help your mom and stuff that's a little rediculous it sounds like a case of Jealousy on her part and really you shouldn't have to rearrange your life cause your sis can't deal with thae fact that you are there for your mom and your family when they are in need. I myself have had falling outs with my sisters and the best thing is time. In time it will all heal and you will wonder what the **** was the Problem. My one sister and I had a Huge blowout and one day out of the blue I Phoned her and said it like this "IF something ever happened to you I, I wouldn't want to feel like we never let this go, we are grown ups and if I were to lose you I don't know what I would do. I went on to tell her I loved her but, this couldn't go on we should try and make the most of every day cause you never know if or when one of us may be around and the backlash of feelings if for some reason we were not able to work through it how Increadible Stupid we would feel about not spending time with eachother when we could.

I brought that in the picture and now we are doing really great. I think bringing death into the discussion of talking and making someone realize how increadibly stupid it is to hold a grudge help. LOL.

I don't know but, there are those who can't let things go. I belive that your sis is jealous feels excluded and is probably the middle child. Is always looking for approval and when she doesn't get what she has to take it out on you, you are her scapgoat and she uses you as an excuse to be mad which is rediculous. Everything will be fine I am sure of that Yoly, God will handle this the way he needs to and push you in the right direction. You have made your effort to fix things and if she can't be woman enough to deal with it without starting somehting elese then you need to step away and let her do her thing. She may just need some time alone but, not too much time.

I am signing off here giving you some nice big (((HUGS)) and ** I know it will be all right Don't worry you have done what you can and will do what you need to do. When hubby is home you can help out your MOM and Nephew you just have to wait till you can go alone.

Take care sweety

Sarah